Still kickin it

Today is day 8 AF.  I am finding that as the days go by I am feeling pretty good about the whole thing.  Still have that initial reaction when I get home from work to want to make a drink and sit down to relax,  but now I just fix a nice cold glass of tea and sit down to relax.   Works fine.  My husband told me last night that he wasn't going to drink and I believed him, but this morning I looked at the bottle of whiskey and noticed it was down about 3 inches.  Then I remembered that he was not drinking from a clear glass last night, so I guess I just assumed he wasnt drinking.  Any way,  it is starting to look to me as tho maybe he has a bigger problem than he wants to admit.  I know its not easy the first few days, but he promised to quit with me, and so far has done nothing but continue to drink.  I can't really say anything tho, cause everyone has to decide for themselves if and when they are ready.  Just wish he would at least try it for one night.  I will not let his actions dictate my decision to stop.  But to tell you the truth, it is kind of annoying to be around someone that is drinking and getting stupid when you yourself are not drinking.  Just not easy to communicate or tolerate the behavior.  Hope everyone is hanging in there!  Heres to another clear eyed and hopeful day!!!!!