Still having a bad day

Hubby is still not talking to me. He's having a bad day too. It's killing me cause there is noting I can do about it. Thats what my problem was before. My life would be out of control and I wouldn't know how to help it so I would "act out" and that's what got me in this mess to begin with. But now that I've found DS I tend to come here instead of acting out because I know I need to fix myself and my marriage. It needs to work out and I'm doing everything I can to make that happen, I'm just still unsure of everything sometimes, especially times like these.