Still grieving
So I think I will start writing and hopefully it will help. I am still grieving from the loss of our baby last week. It is so frusterating becuase it seems everybody just ignores it or wants you to move on. My husband is great and is very supportive. Thank God for him!!! Yesterday was a bad day for me. I just sat and cryed all day. It was really hard taking my daughter to dance class last night and having to tell all the other mothers that we lost the baby. I go for my F/U apt with my regular OB on Monday. I am hopeing they can do some blood work to see if any thing is wrong with me and try to avoid another MC. I dont think I will be ok tell we get pregnant again and get past the first trimester.
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I am so sorry. Give yourself some time the wound is still so fresh and raw. Be good to yourself and my parayers are with you and your family.
So sorry honey. Like Jenn said give yourself some time to heal. What helped me was knowing that I prayed for a Healthy baby I believe someone upstairs simply forgot to add an important ingredient in baby making recipe, and said \" Oh shit, we\'ve got to start all over again!! This baby is far too important to Suzanne and Allan, we can\'t mess up here!\" There is always a siler lining hon, sometimes it is hard to look at it that way but it helps us move forward and to believe that we are stronger people for it. :) Lots of sticky baby dust to you!!!
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I am so sorry. The loss is never easy to deal with. I think all of us have had our days where all we do is cry. It is not easy to tell people either. I know when I get pregnant again I am going to be terrified. I am here if you need to talk.