still feeling down

I am still not feeling well.  Sometimes it's the stomach, sometimes it's the back.  I have a bad back but this feels different.  I'm tired of feeling sick.   Went to visit Scott today.  He is being moved to the nursing part of the home tomorrow.  I saw the semi-private room he will share with someone.  I didn't meet that person cus he was not in the room.  Scott did not want to go.  He is not happy about it at all.  Everyone tells me it's ok and that he will be fine.  I hope so.  I am frustrated cus I can't get the paper work the social worker wants.  She wants a bank statement but unless I am power of attorney they won't give it to me.  They have in the past.  And I pay all his bills anyway.  I go into his account on the computer all the time.  I got a copy of it from there but I know the social worker wants the bank one.  I have to drop off a check to his lawyer and maybe I can talk to someone there.  Nothing is ever easy any more.

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KneeDeep
KneeDeep

oh man....((((Hugs))) for you vin. Your right stuff like this is hard. Your doing all you can for Scott. and it has to be very hard to have to
do all this while your hurting yourself. So much stress. I hope that the lawyer can help you with getting the paper work the social worker wants. are you having to do this by yourself vinlin? does your sister help? Will she help? I hope so

Keeping you in prayer/meditation vinlin. ♥
vinlin
vinlin

I can't remember if I ans this already or not. lol The lawyer is going out to see Scott today for him to sign papers. I'm going out too. even tho I was just there yesterday. My sister works and can't do the running around stuff. Once these papers are signed things should calm down some. Depending on Scott of course. Social worker was talking about hospice. She said they have had them in there for 2 yrs or as little as 2 days. You just never know. He may not even be a candidate for it. They would have to evaluate him first. He was pretty good yesterday. I hope he's the same today since the lawyer is going out there. Have a good day!
KneeDeep
KneeDeep

I hope that all goes well with the lawyer and scott.. Hope afterwards things do settle down...I hope your keeping your doctors appointments as well vin ....keep me posted.
Ladybug7
Ladybug7

I'm sorry you're still not feeling well. Hope the meeting with the attorney went well. Hugs.