Staying Out of the Well
pretty well this holiday, the well of depression, the well of missing my brother, by instead choosing to aggressively work on focus mental energy positively on having fun. Wedding I shot last night was great. Black people. Damn, black folks sure know how to dance and have fun! When the beat took over, they were ANIMALS on the dance floor! I even partook a bit, made an idiot out of myself I'm sure.
The Dominican chick wasn't on that job--different company hiring me for that job--and that's OK...kinda needed to forget about her anyway. The little we talked, I felt a bit limited in her thinking. Her one-to-two-word answers to my questions got a bit unnverving. She's either not interested in me or is extremely shy. Either way, it was like pulling teeth to have a conversation with the girl. In order for me to be happy, I have to be with someone maybe not necessarily a blabber-mouth chatty-catty, but someone who likes to talk somewhat, and definitely someone who is physical, enjoys a good sweat, who encourages me to be physical with her, and that is, from what I'm seeing so far, NOT that woman-child. She's very pretty, very cerebral, very aesthetic, carries a nice purse...would probably spend me out of house and home...reminds me EXACTLY of my ex, whom I also achieved a CERTAIN amount of happiness with, but, again, felt a bit limited in the physical and conversational dept. Of course, I could always ask the Dominican if she'd like to go DANCING sometime, just to see her reaction lol...
Maybe the black race is the ethnicity I should be focusing on for romantic/sexual liasons and a possible relationship future...I sure like their physical nature and strong spirituality (they're big into Jesus).
The Dominican chick wasn't on that job--different company hiring me for that job--and that's OK...kinda needed to forget about her anyway. The little we talked, I felt a bit limited in her thinking. Her one-to-two-word answers to my questions got a bit unnverving. She's either not interested in me or is extremely shy. Either way, it was like pulling teeth to have a conversation with the girl. In order for me to be happy, I have to be with someone maybe not necessarily a blabber-mouth chatty-catty, but someone who likes to talk somewhat, and definitely someone who is physical, enjoys a good sweat, who encourages me to be physical with her, and that is, from what I'm seeing so far, NOT that woman-child. She's very pretty, very cerebral, very aesthetic, carries a nice purse...would probably spend me out of house and home...reminds me EXACTLY of my ex, whom I also achieved a CERTAIN amount of happiness with, but, again, felt a bit limited in the physical and conversational dept. Of course, I could always ask the Dominican if she'd like to go DANCING sometime, just to see her reaction lol...
Maybe the black race is the ethnicity I should be focusing on for romantic/sexual liasons and a possible relationship future...I sure like their physical nature and strong spirituality (they're big into Jesus).
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It\'s good to hear you are staying out of the well.....The holidays can be a difficult time for folks.
Since when does a man take notice of a womans purse? LOL (thats handbag in the UK I believe, which usually has a purse in it).
That\'s where I\'ve been going wrong with men all my life LOL, I focused on having the right shoes instead of the right purse ;-)
Thanks, solitaire. Couldn\'t help but notice...the thing was very fine lol. But, uh, no--I was checking out the rest of her too.
well I\'m still gonna get a jazzy purse for the xmas party next weekend (just in case anyone checks it out) and I\'m gonna dance my ass off :-) .................. a bit of harmless flirting might help me see there is life after the ex........can\'t go too mad tho it\'s a work do
5olitaire, you go girl and have some fun. I went to a club with my boys while on vacation and really let my hair down......it felt so good to dance the night away - mainly country line dancing but still energetic and fun. Probably one of the older ones dancing but what the heck, I had fun, and even had a couple of younger guys high five me for keeping up with them!! It was a blast!