Sometimes....I don't know what to do
So my ex picks up our daughter around 10:30 pm ( doing this quite frequently lately) and when he comes back he sends with her a gift for me....just some candy and a hand written note...I will always remember our movie nights. And my daughter is telling me how much he has changed. My hearts sinks, I know that feeling....he has changed... he is such a great guy....and then...he flipps again....and you realize nothing has changed.
I hate seen how he is manipulating our daughter...and am kind in the middle. She is 18 and sadly have seen some of his manipulative behavior, still he knows how to get to her.
Am thinking am going to have to suggest therapy for her...she went briefly for depression before, but I think she needs to see what is really happening with her dad.
Its me and I have to remember that this seemingly lovable, caring person was capable of kicking me in my ribs until I passed out....and his mind games almost, almost left me with no desire to live.
Any suggestions?
I hate seen how he is manipulating our daughter...and am kind in the middle. She is 18 and sadly have seen some of his manipulative behavior, still he knows how to get to her.
Am thinking am going to have to suggest therapy for her...she went briefly for depression before, but I think she needs to see what is really happening with her dad.
Its me and I have to remember that this seemingly lovable, caring person was capable of kicking me in my ribs until I passed out....and his mind games almost, almost left me with no desire to live.
Any suggestions?
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