Something new

I met someone a month ago. It was funny because I was not looking for probably one of the few times in my life. He is kind and gentlemanly. Takes me out on dates, remembers everything I say. Thinks of me before him. Tells everyone about me. I have never had this in a relationship. We have discussed things thst have happened in our lives and he has had a traumatic event also. Which made it easier to open up. we email and talk to each other everyday that we are not together. Quite a few times a day. There are feelings that are happening quick. We have obstained from making love to build a friendship. This is awesome and a first for me. So we are emailing each other yesterday and romance and feelings come out. I was just feeling great. Then he wrote me at the end of the night asking that I dont show anyone the stuff he writes to me because it was really lovey. I understood. Yet I was offended that he thought I would share something so personal.  So as we all know that wonderful mind that thinks,rethinks you cant shut it off wakes up. Then  I remembered last weekend he took me to a place where alot of his friends were he wanted me to meet them. I was happy when everyone was saying I have heard so much about you. We went ouside awhile later and had a smoke and he told me that he shared some about how hard my life was and how strong and kind I am no matter lifes trauma.  There was part of me that was upset and another part that thought well if someone told me some of the things he had heard I might want to talk to my friends about it. Then again he did have a traumatic event I have not said anything about to anyone. He is older and so there are problems with certain things with his body. I have not told any of my friends. So when I first reacted I was embarrassed that these people knew some things about me I might not want them to because it was personal and people judge. His come back was You said you are proud of what you havecome through and I dont worry about what people think of me. which is true for the most part. I let it go till he became concerned that I might share what he said lovingly in our emails. I said I dont share personal things.. So I was fine til I thought why is he worried about me sharing, because he does?  I dont know if I am overacting or not. I am going to let him know this bothers me. If not it might happen again.