Some people really annoy me
So I have this co worker that is about 26 weeks pregnant right now and I hate how she complains about everything that has to do with her pregnancy I would give anything to be in her shoes right now. early in her pregnancy she would make comments like "it better be a girl or I don't know what I will do" and just stupid stuff like that and lately she has been complaining about every little thing like being kicked and her belly getting big and all that stuff and making rude comments towards me like "shouldn't you be pregnant by now?" YES I SHOULD BE PREGNANT BY NOW!!! and I have been several times I just wish I could tell everybody what I have gone through sometimes. it is very hard to see pregnant women or women with baby's and it is super hard when I get bombarded like that.
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Pregnant women can be VERY annoying...I am pregnant but I remember how annoying they could be. My sister got pregnant soon after my miscarriage and drove me CRAZY! She HATED being pregnant she worried about everything and was miserable!!! If it were me, I would probably tell your co worker about your losses, maybe she would be a \"little\" more sympathetic, but maybe not...you just never know with people. Sorry you are having to deal with that at work:(
i know how you feel! its so hard when people just don\'t know. and if they knew, they might bite their tongue a little more. i have a friend who is like that and it makes me so crazy because i just want to yell at her that i\'ve been trying for a year and half now and i\'ve had two miscarriages and of course all she can complain about is how she accidentally got pregnant and she misses being able to party. :/ sheesh.
I am sorry! That really makes going to work difficult. Do you think it would help to talk to her and tell her what you have been through? Would she be an understanding person? Sorry she makes it so tough!
Sarah