So stressed at work
So IVF is on hold at the moment, just waiting for apt next week to get an idea what the plan of action from here is!
The main thing bothering me at the moment is my Boss!!! She leapfrogged me to a promotion at work earlier this year (even though I hired her, trained her and shes been there half the time I have) I have dealt with this pretty well and was very proud of myself, for not letting it stress me out too much.
However, she is the WORST manager I have ever had and getting worse, she has cut me out of everything and there are whispers that I am not supporting her, so basically she is using me as a scapegoat for everything she's screwing up!! Now she has hired two new people without even consulting me on my opinion when I am the one who will be having to train (since we have no other staff available to do it, we were a team of 6 now we have 3) them on top of our excessive work load and short staffing.
I am really worried this stress is going to tip me over, I hate a job I once loved and I don't know how to deal with it without looking like a trouble making bad loser!
I do not need this at a time when I need to be in peak physical and mental condition for my FET in the next few months.
I have no idea how to deal with this, any advice will be much appreciated!
The main thing bothering me at the moment is my Boss!!! She leapfrogged me to a promotion at work earlier this year (even though I hired her, trained her and shes been there half the time I have) I have dealt with this pretty well and was very proud of myself, for not letting it stress me out too much.
However, she is the WORST manager I have ever had and getting worse, she has cut me out of everything and there are whispers that I am not supporting her, so basically she is using me as a scapegoat for everything she's screwing up!! Now she has hired two new people without even consulting me on my opinion when I am the one who will be having to train (since we have no other staff available to do it, we were a team of 6 now we have 3) them on top of our excessive work load and short staffing.
I am really worried this stress is going to tip me over, I hate a job I once loved and I don't know how to deal with it without looking like a trouble making bad loser!
I do not need this at a time when I need to be in peak physical and mental condition for my FET in the next few months.
I have no idea how to deal with this, any advice will be much appreciated!
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I understand how you feel. I absolutely hate my boss too. I actually enjoy the work my office does, she\'s just a very stressful biotch to work for. I have to take notes all the time because she too likes to try and blame me for things too. I\'ve had to go as far as complain to HR about her. Twice. I\'m even looking into a different job that\'s going to be devastating because it\'s less pay, but my happiness and stress level will hopefully be very worth it! So sorry, and good luck!
I have been looking at jobs too but like you will lose a lot of money if I do this, but you are right, my happiness is kinda crucial at the moment, I am making an appointment at HR tomorrow, its not my usual style but its all that\'s left to do really, no good moaning to her about it. I don\'t trust her!