so much going on

I have had so much going lately that it is nice to have a chance to rest (at least a little). However I continue to deal with the constant stress of not only my work life but also home. My husband and I do desperately want children that we are willing to do almost anything. Sometimes I wonder what it will ultimately take. I am praying for something to happen soon. Meanwhile, the structure of pretty much everything at work is changing and all up in the air...hopefully things will settle down soon.
So the question is how to balance work, marriage, home, and other activities while keeping everyone happy. I really would love to figure that out! It is difficult to keep up with everything, make everyone happy and not come across as condescending, which apparently I sometimes do.