So much drama thank goodness I have Angelica
There is so much going on I don't know where to start.. as some of you might know my husband was in the Army and stationed overseas well supposedly he had a 3 yr long affair and the girl is now claiming that she has just delivered his second set of twins.. I hate not knowing the truth and of course my husband won't tell anyone the truth.. Now he is saying he's filing for Divorce because he doesn't trust me (isn't that a joke)... So here I was in a foreign country 12 weeks preg with some girl telling me she already has a set of twins with my husband and is now expecting the 2nd and what does my husband do he sends me away back to the states.. now here comes march 2014 and he has come back to the states and moved in with me under the understanding that we are working on our marriage.. Little do I know he is still talking to this girl and telling her we are already divorced.. now here I am in May having had our baby and this girl is continuing to try and contact me.. I already deleted my Facebook back in February cuz I was tired of getting messages and death threats.. now here i am today and i log onto Linkdin the job website and who do you think has been repeatedly viewing my page this girl.. I just can't get away from it all.. and to top it all off I have his child now so i am forever in this drama he has created... I wish I never told him about our child.. and on top of that she is now threatening to take my child away from me through acts of violence or by being with my husband and helping him take her.. I just want this nightmare over... If it wasn't for Angelica I would've given up already
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Oh. My. GOD. This sounds like a horror movie! I\'m so sorry girl. I had no idea about the 3 year affair and this crazy bitch contacting you. If there are violent threats, I really think you should print them all off and contact the police immediately. You and your precious daughter don\'t need this in your lives. Thinking of you hun!
thanks hun I have contacted the police I\'ve been told because she is in a foreign country and i have no other info but her name that nothing can be done.. so for now i just have to worry about taking care of Angelica and I
What a nightmare, I am so sorry you are dealing with this, but glad you are not stuck in a relationship with this man, you deserve so much better!
Thats insane..you should literally just move an disappear. from him and her.
That is awful! Your soon to be ex is complete and utter scum. This girl is no better. I wish there were international laws for stalking and getting a restraining order on her! I agree with Becca maybe getting a fresh start would be the best situation. I might also contact the websites she is visiting viewing your information and see if anything else can be done as well.
thanks ladies something def has to be done
OMG I am so sorry that you are going through this, to struggle with IF then this....it saddens me and I\'m praying that you will make the right decisions for you and your baby. and that bit$% is crazy if she really thinks she can take your baby away, NOT happening!
If you haven\'t already - he needs to be out from under the same roof as you. I don\'t know which state you are in but check and make sure that if you serve him the papers he HAS to leave. Instruct your nanny he is NOT allowed in the house. Change the locks the second he leaves.
I am so sorry you have gone through this nightmare while pregnant and with a newborn. You and your daughter deserve better than this. Do you have family to support you where you live? SAve all those messages as proof of his infidelity for your divorce.
ty u all so much.. i only have my mom here