SO I grew up

It seemed to me that I've grown milestones, and the man was still an immature baby. I fell in love, but it didn't have a chance, because he was involved, and did not even find it necessary to tell me , so I assumed, it meant nothing. But it meant the world to me that he put forth effort to come n see me after 25 years after our first romance, and recindle it, so I had his knoledge as an adult, but I didn't like how he turned out as a person. ANd I couldnt let him disrupt my life again with all of the hurt and sorrow this one man brought to me. SO I had to say no.