So Fucking Pissed
I hate cursing but my sister fucking pissed me off just now, I was talking about how I wanted to dedicate a tattoo in memory of my lost angel and she had the fucking nerve to tell me how crazy I was and that my baby wasn't even a baby but a blob of blood, I don't give a fuck right now to watch out for my language she is 2 months pregnant with her second child which both were unplanned and I worked soo hard for mine just to have it be taken away from me, life is soo not fair and to be told that I shouldn't be mourning my child because it didn't fit her criteria of a baby, people can be so fucking insensitive, YOU can't relate to what I'm going through so shut the fuck up, uuuggghhhh I called this baby MY BABY since the day that I found out about my baby, fucking stupid people
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I know how you feel. It makes me mad that people act like my baby wasn\'t a baby but we all know the truth. I can\'t believe she actually said that to you though. Wow. I\'m sorry girl people can be so insensitive even family. My sister who has 5 children had the nerve to tell me I could have one of hers. Like I wanna hear that. How did u respond to that?
OMG!! That is Beyond messed up ...Im so sorry sweetie! I had to early early Miscarriages also and they are all my babies! HANG IN THERE!
That is beyond messed up! I am so sorry you had to hear that...and it is not true!! It was not just some blob of blood...it was your child! People can be so insensative and unfortunately i have heart more excuses than i can count when it comes to my miscarriage. its as if we arent given the right to grieve because we never got to meet our baby. Well screw them!!
I am so sorry that you must endure such ignorance... But, it is to be expected as so many people do not believe our babies were important because they never took a breath beyond our bodies.
It gets greater later... Remind your sister that she is not exempt.
Hugs!!!
N.
I understand. People who haven\'t been in your shoes don\'t understand and I have had people say some things to me that I couldn\'t believe they would say. At least you have us, we all get it!
I am so sorry. I prolly would have hit her. Lol My little sister is pregnant with her THIRD child right now. Just was like oh I think I wanna have another baby with my BOYFRIEND cuz he thinks he wants to be a daddy to his own child since my other TWO aren\'t his. She actually told me on several occasions that she didn\'t want anymore children. I tried for 6 years to get pregnant with Briley. She was MY BABY from the second I got pregnant. Your sister needs to learn how to talk to ppl. That was just rude. I think a tattoo would be wonderful. I am getting Briley\'s footprints with angel wing done in pink
sorry!!!that\'s pretty messed up. she is clearly ignorant about this type of loss and all you can do now is forgive her and move on healing from your loss.
Thank you sooo very much everyone for your kind words and encouragement, this world is full of ignorant people unfortunately, hate when people say well maybe it was for the best, at least you can have kids, uuughhh, not going to let anyone stop my joy no matter what, cried sooo much last night it gave me an extremely bad migraine and swollen eyes, even my face was swollen smh, walked into work and it was so noticeable that I was crying, everyone kept hugging me, I am here for all of you and thank God for daily strength, love you all :)
Wow, that totally sucks. People not going through this, just don\'t get it. I had a similar fight with my sister. About three weeks after my miscarriage she told me I needed to relax, because I was being \"really sensitive lately. We\'ll all had a tough year.\" Had this happened in person rather then over the phone, I would have slapped her. As much as the dumb comments hurt they hurt even more coming from family. Sorry about your sister. but you have your DS sisters to vent to!
Sorry for the stupid people in the world, even those we love.
Hugs to you!
I think that a tatoo is a wonderful memoral for your little one. Sometimes people are just stupid, and I am so sorry that she hurt you. Sending you lots of hugs.
Aww hun. I\'m so sorry. You have every right to be upset. I have had people be like that to me when I tell them about my miscarriage. They just brush it off like its nothing. So sorry hun. Some people are stupid and should really keeps their mouths shut when they don\'t know what to say. I think the tattoo is a wonderful idea and I plan on doing one for my little angel too. Sending hugs your way hun!