So far so good
As of now, I am making progress. All of my 'alters' agree that we need to re-merge but still cannot agree to actually do it. They just need time to get close enough to allow it to happen. Time is the only factor here, and the only determining reason.
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You are young yet and have the rest of your life to let your internal family get to know each other and merge as they feel ready. No rush for you or them!