Snowed in...
snow really started coming down last night, and hasnt stopped. i dont think we have gotten this much snow here that stuck for 8-10 years! im going to post some pictures, going to sled my preggo belly down the hill... lol. carefully of course. this really puts a damper on my plans to get bills paid up as i cant work, but i have a job, and that is good. i found my ex in the casino again the other night, lol..... when i went to drop off a friend from christmas shopping. i thought about just leaving, but nope, i went up to him and asked him to come downstairs to talk to me. lol, he looked like he about shit his pants. i informed him that i worked there, so hopefully he wont be coming in there. i have to be happy around customers and keep myself calm, last thing i want to see is him coming in there with some girl or something and me getting upset. we talked, he tried to "inform me" lol that he was not getting back together with me no matter what i did, i told him not to flatter himself. that i did not want him back and that me and Ariyah were perfectly fine without him in our lives. that he was a selfish liar, as he tried to tell me that he can no longer have a good christmas because of my calling his parents. i told him that he brought it all upon himself by his lies. he apologized for fucking up my life, lol, i told him that NO ONE can have the privelege of fucking up my life but me. and that my life was perfectly fine, if not would be better. he keeps worrying about what people will think of him. i said lets look at the facts, you KNEW I was pregnant, and you left me to the birds when i was sick. you KNOW Its your baby, but you deny her when confronted, how do you think of yourself? no matter what you cannot hide those facts behind the navy or work. he walked away after a bit, i said fine, just keep running, its what you do best, and i left. he called the next day asking if i need anything, lol, for the first time. of course i said nope. well, going to go play in the snow now, should have some pictures up soon.
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Good job with your ex...Have fun in the snow...
Way to go girlie! Hope you and Ariyah have a fun(but safe) slide down the driveway :) I\'m loving the fact that you have your spunk back!
Love, Julie
Lovey - he needs to live with himself. YOu are taking control of your life and taking ownership. it is now time for you to souly think of you and your girl. Hugs and love - enjoy the fun Suzi
Good for you! He needed put in his place - you have taken the power away from him and Im glad. I hope it felt good to you? I have always admired your resolve and strength, but you just keeping getting better and better. Woohoo! Have a great Christmas my friend, for next year you\'ll be preparing for Santa arriving - and thats a challenge, believe me! Good luck in the snow. Hugs Heather x
Yeah good job with your ex. Telling him not to show up at the casino that you work at. Have fun in the snow and have a nice Holiday.
lol, i tried to scoot down the hill on a garbage can lid, but it wouldnt move, i just sunk. i guess pregnant people arent made to slide, lol.
Now that I would like to have seen a picture of. I could imagine the expression on your face as you sank into the snow:):):):)
Good for you sticking to your guns. You sound happy and content. Keep it up, and Merry Christmas
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Tessa
Good for you for standing your ground...you\'ll be fine...and so will your baby girl...without him. He will regret his behavior and attitude some day. Stay strong; you\'re doing the right thing and moving on with life. Happy New Year ....
take care,
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Brigette
WTG Drak on telling him what is what!!!!!! That is great! He should be ashamed of himself! I am glad that obviously his mother gave him whatfor! (supposedly telling his parents ruined his Christmas!) He didn\'t get to act like Mommy\'s good little boy and Mommy found out he has been a miserable jerk, deserting a woman with his baby on the way....definitely not mommy\'s good little boy any more! You are so better off without him!!!!
Anyway, hopefully you will be getting the support you deserve very soon. Wishing you a wonderful New Year! Love ya, Dianne
Way to go Sweetie!!! You did good standing up for yourself and baby, I am proud of you. Have a happy new year.
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Judy