single mom at 16
well, im prego...and i cant tell danny cos well break up, and hell blame the whole thing on me...i asked him what he would do and he said that he wants me to get an abortion if it ever happens...tada....guess my worst nightmare came true....crap....i hate my life and im scared that ill do something stupid....help me
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Girl, don\'t do anything \"stupid\"--you know what I\'m talking about. Having a child while in foster care CAN be ok. There will be alot of help and services available for you and your child if you want them. Eventually you will have to tell Danny-he can\'t blame it all on you either--it take TWO to tango honey-if YOU didn\'t have protection, HE should have taken the initiative to get some. Don\'t let anyone talk you into abortion if it\'s not what YOU want. The abortin sounds easy for him to say because he\'s not the pregnant one and it sounds like he really doesn\'t want any responsibility for it--like he\'s going to try to put it all on you. Just think on all of it for a few days or weeks before making ANY decision-because any decision you make will have a lasting effect for you regardless of what you decide to do. In any case-YOU will be ok. Keep journaling-it will help you sort some of your feeling out-and the feedback can be helpful. Just know you\'re really not alone. Love you and blessings.....