SICK AND TIRED OF IT ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just don't know anymore... I mean.. WHAT'S THE POINT ??????I can't stand this CRAP anymore ! I'm SICK of His THREATS... of His RAGE.. of His CHATTING WITH OTHER WOMEN ONLINE... of His EVERYTHING !!!!! I tell Myself I Love Him... that that's Part of the Reason, at least, why He's STILL here ! BUT... I wonder anymore. HOW CAN I LOVE SOMEONE that will THREATEN TO HURT ME AT THE LEAST LITTLE EXCUSE ?????!!!!!I DON'T UNDERSTAND HIM AT ALL ANYMORE !!!!! HOW CAN HE CLAIM TO ' LOVE ME ', and YET HE'LL THREATEN TO BEAT ME AT THE DROP OF A HAT.... for things as LITTLE AS... IF I Don't Empty the Dishwasher when He TELLS ME TO... OR IF I Don't Help Him with the Laundry when He TELLS ME TO... OR IF I don't Cook EXACTLY what HE WANTS ME TO COOK - WHEN HE WANTS ME TO COOK IT !... OR IF I haven't made a Phone Call to Apartment Maintenance YET about asking Them to come out and complete something - ( even though that ' Something ' isn't really an Emergency... it's not as IF We're hurting somehow because of Maintenance's Delay ).... ALL OF THESE THINGS in HIS MIND are JUSTIFIABLE REASONS TO THREATEN TO BEAT ME !!!!!! AND YET... THIS SAME GUY... SAYS " I LOVE YOU " !!!! What the Heck ????? Does that make ANY SENSE TO YOU ????
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Thats control not love and caring.........Take Care of You. (((Hugs)))
It\'s ALL about power and control....that\'s all it\'s about. Whether or not you love him is not in his equation. It\'s just a tool to enable him to exercise power and control over you. Yes, it makes perfect sense to me....I lived w/ a man like that. Bu not any more, never again......The next man who tells me he loves me will have to prove it.....
If I were you I\'d get him OUT before he makes good on the threats, it\'s only a matte of time.....As you realize what your up against, he\'ll know it, and will ramp it up. Be careful, stay safe.
Hugs.
No relationship is worth that! It is toxic. Don\'t live like that anymore; it just isn\'t worth it because some day, if not already, he will carry through on his threats. That is not love; that is being a bully. Get some help and fast. Get rid of that bully.