She is Gone

She is gone.  My aunt died this afternoon after fighting for many weeks.  Her granddaughter  called to give me the news.  I told her, "Well, she's in a better place".  It is one of the many sayings people use to console others in the time of death.  But, is she really in a better place?  What better place is there than this earth that God created for us.  According to the Bible, the angels envied us.  Depending on your beliefs, my aunt is at the right hand of God,,,she's with Jesus,,,she's reuniting with her sisters, brother, mother and father who have gone ahead,,,we'll see her again when we die,,,she's in heaven with all her pain and frailty gone,,,,she's a spirit,,,or she's asleep awaiting for the second coming.  Personally, I believe she's asleep as are my mom and dad.  But a better place?  Her happiest times were with her family, whether it be a family gathering for Thanksgiving or Christmas, a birthday party, a wedding, or an anniversary.  Family meant so much to her.  I guess that's why it was so easy for her to become my second mom when my mom died.  What I do know is that she never has to struggle to breath, walk, talk, or,eat.  And she has no pain.  I know she knows her family loved her.  She will be missed by her family and her friends.  I will miss you Aunt Marguerite,,,,,more than you'll ever know.  I was blessed for having you in my life. 
 

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1Patriciann
1Patriciann

I\'m so sorry for your loss Mike.

Gentle ((hugs)) of comfort shared.
:-) Patricia
plumptomato
plumptomato

So sorry to hear about your precious aunt/mom. But, you are right, she doesn\'t have to go through any more pain. Maybe you will see her in your dreams and can give her a hug! (I see all those I love who are gone in my dreams and it is so comforting to me.)
P.T.
JOYHOLY
JOYHOLY

HELLO SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, WHAT YOU SAY IS VERY BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE YOU SHARED LOVE, AND THAT IS PRICELESS, SURELY SHE IS DANCING AND SINGING IN HEAVEN, LOVE LUCY**
deleted_user
deleted_user

When the Lord calls our loved ones home, HE leaves a gift of memories in exchange. May your wonderful memories, and stories of your special aunt fill your heart during this time.
deleted_user
deleted_user

She will always be remembered