Self reflection and growth

I've been on my own now for just about 9 months. Ironically the same amount of time it takes to grow a new person. So what have I learned in 9 months? Well lesson number 1 is be kind to myself. Be patient and forgiving. Expect no one to secure my happiness but me! Finding myself has been a slow process. Discovering my strenghts and abilities a journey. One that must be made alone. Leaving behind the preconceived notion  that I have to be part of a couple. Learning to value my own company. Realizing with full honesty why my relationships have failed. Coming to terms with my future as a single individual. The journey continues on...