Seeking advice for my HS

I'm a 35 year old female who has been suffering with HS since I was 18. I didn't get diagnosed until 2016. Doctors would always prescribe me antibiotics for my outbreaks! It seems like the antibiotics don't help me at all or maybe after taking them for all these years my body is probably immune to them?! I notice that I break out more during my monthly! It bothers me because my breakouts usually occur on my vagina and my butt. I've had them under my arms, behind my ear, my elbow, even on my knuckles one time, but my butt and vagina are my usual outbreak spots! I get overwhelmed and depressed a lot because I don't know what to do sometimes! The only support system I have is my fiance and I feel like he's getting tired of having to deal with me and my HS