See Maybe this will help with the focus too?!
I don't get it,.. do people really intend to achieve pain within their words... I mean, if negativity already seeps out of their veins - what need is there to articulate painful statements. Pushing buttons... hurting feelings... what is the reason?
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I don\'t think they are trying to hurt others. They are trying to release themselves. Sometimes trying to establish the truth. - what they perceive to be the truth from their belief system. I don\'t think it is ever about the victim. And I think the perp is often in pain themselves. I have been in both spots myself, much to my sorrow.