scam artist
alright i told the story of our fight on saturday night in the last journal entry, and also added the following behaviors where he felt firmly established as alpha dog since i apologized. he then "punished me all day sunday with silent treatment and 'refused " to go to church.(which we do for him, not me). by monday dominant position behaviors in full force. i did not rise to the bait....and realized that things are really never going to change so it is time for peace. BUT he did, in his way attempt to torture me all weekend for making him feel "sad" about the argument. He was CLEARLY stoned friday afternoon and clearly stoned when he called me at work several times today. so what !!!!
BUT torture and punish me when you are scamming? part of me wants him to know that i know, but right now not worth the aggravation. dumbass!
many check in phonecalls today, made dinner, food shopping done. etc..... bribes to throw me off the track, but i dont have to do it so alright.
oh and.... as i was leaving for work this morning it was pouring, the dog had to go out but i was running late..so i asked him to take care of her -------well--------apparently he did not, so he calls me about 45 minutes later already slurring words then stepped in doggie poo and large doggie pee puddle,
aaaahhhhh karma!
BUT torture and punish me when you are scamming? part of me wants him to know that i know, but right now not worth the aggravation. dumbass!
many check in phonecalls today, made dinner, food shopping done. etc..... bribes to throw me off the track, but i dont have to do it so alright.
oh and.... as i was leaving for work this morning it was pouring, the dog had to go out but i was running late..so i asked him to take care of her -------well--------apparently he did not, so he calls me about 45 minutes later already slurring words then stepped in doggie poo and large doggie pee puddle,
aaaahhhhh karma!
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Its like a never ending cycle....we just need to find our way out of the downward spiral and into our own space. So hard! You are a trooper, and clearly have much more control over yourself than I do, lol! I can never resist texting my hubby to let him know that I KNOW what is really going on, not that it helps. ((((HUGS))))