Saying Goodbye

Well it has always been hard to say good-bye to anyone.That is most anyone.These past five years I have said good-bye to a lot of acquantences.Some were closer than others.By that I mean as we get to know that the person we are talking to or visting is a person who is searching for answers and have not found them yet.I remember my first good-bye at the community where I reside.Now this was a call for help.Not meaning medical but a call that you could see on there face.This needed a .D.S.workout for sure.Remember I had  no knowledge of DS.I tell you now more and more people need to hook up to this wonderful program.The word good-bye is a hard word. This is a word that can scratch as hard as a abrasive cleaner.It rubs all the good away. Having to say this 7 letter word can be hard if you are atatached to someone.You see  when death visits tnen this really is a hard good-bye.Death has  made its way several times here and having to do this time and time again gets harder and harder.I have said this to alot of good people.Remember this Death has no respect of person or age.It will come to all of us.When and How I do not NO  and DO NOT WANT TO.My point to this is that when you are in the presence of someone who is sick and dying it is a hard thing to go thru even if they are no kin to you.My last close friend that I had to say good-bye to was Wed.nite.It is not easy and I miss them.When it is time to say good-bye I pray that you will have the strength and the love to do it. Weither it be by the grave, or moving somewhere those words will still ring forth............GOOD-BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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reerose
reerose

i dont know if you mean suicide or your friends death. youve got me very worried. but dont go. please. i need your friendship. M.
Debbalina
Debbalina

Wait, are you leaving us here at DS? Please don't go. I'll miss your words of inspiration. You've been through alot and I always love your hugs and saying remember to smile. Death is a difficult thing especially when you are around it alot. That must be so hard. But remember the support you've gained here at DS. We are all routing for you. I'll miss you if you go!
unfair96
unfair96

Hi Milklover its been a while eh, awwww I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. It's never easy to say goodbye to a ones dear friends. I had to say it two years ago to my friend as he laid in the hospital bed and nodded to me as an indication that "this is it", I hugged him and said "I love you, see you in Paradise " and then I made way for the Doctors to try their last effort but..............after a while I went back to his bedside and closed his eyes better. I can truly say I know how you may have felt. Keep strong Milklover, you will be able to welcome back your friend again............you know what I mean right ?(smile) Take care friend.