Saturday September,27, 2014
I want to thank each of you that have answered my call for help and let you know just how much it means to me.
I wish I could say I was feeling better. My grandson has my daughter and I fit to be tied. Noisy in the morning on Saturday when it would be so nice to sleep awhile. Then he comes up and pokes and shakes his mother to wake her up. Demanding she wake up NOW. Orders her around all day. His PSR came and he told him he hated him and to leave. How rude! His is an extreme O.D.D. persona and just doesn't get. We spent an hour and a half trying to tell him that he can't expect something he wants right away. He has to work for it. He thinks he should have what he wants if he just promises to behave. He doesn't think it is fair that he can't just have want he wants. And throws a royal fit when he doesn't get it.
Nothing changes. Nothing helps. His mother needs a break and believe me I could use one too. No friends. All his friends have moved away now so he is in the apt. most of the time watching tv, playing his DS , or whining and making weird noises. He has one chore he is asked to do weekly and he can't even do that most of the time.
So very tired of it all.
I wish I could say I was feeling better. My grandson has my daughter and I fit to be tied. Noisy in the morning on Saturday when it would be so nice to sleep awhile. Then he comes up and pokes and shakes his mother to wake her up. Demanding she wake up NOW. Orders her around all day. His PSR came and he told him he hated him and to leave. How rude! His is an extreme O.D.D. persona and just doesn't get. We spent an hour and a half trying to tell him that he can't expect something he wants right away. He has to work for it. He thinks he should have what he wants if he just promises to behave. He doesn't think it is fair that he can't just have want he wants. And throws a royal fit when he doesn't get it.
Nothing changes. Nothing helps. His mother needs a break and believe me I could use one too. No friends. All his friends have moved away now so he is in the apt. most of the time watching tv, playing his DS , or whining and making weird noises. He has one chore he is asked to do weekly and he can't even do that most of the time.
So very tired of it all.
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Sorry that you are going through such a rough time. I don\'t know what advice to give, I have never had to deal wit what you are dealing with, I just hope and pray that your situation improves.
God bless you all.
Hugs, Jean
Thank you for your input.
Godbless you hun, i can only imagine how exhausted you are. I pray things get better soon and you are able to get some much needed rest, relaxation and also some much needed time for yourself too *hugs* Hang in there hun and i am so sorry to hear what you are going through. Big hugs x
I doubt things will be better soon. Rest is something I doubt we will be seeing too. Costs money we can\'t afford. Time for ourselves? What is that? Relaxation? I am trying to hang in there. Believe me.