rough week
well this has been a very tough week for me.. my husband is stationed overseas and Ive been living with my mom while dealing with all the IF issues.. It is very stressful living with my mom we fight and argue all the time.. on top of all that my mom is losing her house and doesnt have a job to be able to get an apt.. so on top of being alone here in the states without my husband, now I have to deal with my Mother and me not being able to help her and then on top of all this we got our very first positive in 12yrs only to loss our miracle after just one month... I feel like everything is all going downhill at once..
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I wish I could say something to make your week better, to lift some of your troubles, but all I can say is I\'m sorry. I hear and feel your pain. I also know how life can have a habit of kicking you while you\'re down, adding more and more trials when you think your shoulders have taken on all they can bear.
It\'s easy for me to say it\'ll get better, much harder to see it and believe it. Vent away, heaven knows I\'ve done it in my journal all week long and try to remember that things will change, they will get better, it just takes time.
Thanks polydoly13 that means a lot to me... it helps to write things down and know your not alone with ur troubles... i just dislike how it all crashes at once or good things happen then get taken away..i just feel like such a failure as a women and wife the one thing im supposed to do naturally and I cant
That\'s a lot to deal with at once! My only hope is that since everything bad is happening at once, maybe that means things will start to turn positive soon. When does your husband come back?
As far as the miscarriage, believe me I know how hard that is. There is nothing to really say about that to try and make you feel better, so just know it\'s ok to just cry and grieve that loss. I really hope that you can get your BFP soon and help make this hurting easier.
And finally, vent away! It\'s theraputic to type things out and even better to get support!
hes stationed there for a another yr and a half... i agree it has helped to type how i feel and actually have others who have been through similar situations.. thanks so much for taking the time to reply