Rollercoaster Rides
Now where does this leave me? One year. I found out she had left with my daughter a year ago. got my daughter back in when we were about to split everything in a divorce, we stopped and decided to try counseling. that started in January '11. Where are we now? There have been some painful times and then there have been good times. Spring came and went and we were as though the past was a vapor.
Summer came and she was worried about a vacation trip. something I knew could be OK. And the trip to south padre island was really good. My Birthday came and went, Becky's came and went and hers came and went. all seems so wonderful. I went and spent money on a wedding ring to start anew. Wrong size so I sent it to be re-sized. then October popped up and emotions flooded into my head and heart like a dam broke. I tried to shew them into a corner and she was there telling me all was fine. my anniversary came and went of D-day and then in Nov I had a 4 day trip to Houston, them came along. very good time. We came back on Friday, I had a emergency call to go on and so when I came back we crashed. the next morning, she went to shower and Becky was in the closet playing when I went to get her out, I heard it. A low ominous sound. one I hated, one I dreaded. the secret phone rang. I opened it up and read the text messages from the child molester to her. How he longed for her and was always thinking of her. and her talking with him. I slipped it into my pocket and put it in the truck. That was Sat, this is Mon and I guess today she will slip into the closet to use that phone and when she finds it gone. Now I see my hopefulness of a family again, has come down to being duped by my own self.
Summer came and she was worried about a vacation trip. something I knew could be OK. And the trip to south padre island was really good. My Birthday came and went, Becky's came and went and hers came and went. all seems so wonderful. I went and spent money on a wedding ring to start anew. Wrong size so I sent it to be re-sized. then October popped up and emotions flooded into my head and heart like a dam broke. I tried to shew them into a corner and she was there telling me all was fine. my anniversary came and went of D-day and then in Nov I had a 4 day trip to Houston, them came along. very good time. We came back on Friday, I had a emergency call to go on and so when I came back we crashed. the next morning, she went to shower and Becky was in the closet playing when I went to get her out, I heard it. A low ominous sound. one I hated, one I dreaded. the secret phone rang. I opened it up and read the text messages from the child molester to her. How he longed for her and was always thinking of her. and her talking with him. I slipped it into my pocket and put it in the truck. That was Sat, this is Mon and I guess today she will slip into the closet to use that phone and when she finds it gone. Now I see my hopefulness of a family again, has come down to being duped by my own self.
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Oh this just absolutely STINKS!
But DO NOT run yourself under this bus! You were the one who made every attempt to reconcile in your marriage. She is the one who, obviously, was lying through her teeth. My advice? Get in touch with an attorney IMMEDIATELY and this time, GO THROUGH WITH DIVORCE! You gave her a fair second chance. She does NOT deserve another one!
Thanks kathi, My divorce has only been on pause since last year. All that was left was to go through mediation. I already had the Judges orders in place. Talked with the lawyer yesterday and he said to expose the phone to her infront of the counselor that way there is a witness to the other phone