Roller Coaster
I guess this is what they mean. I thought we had everything pretty much worked out, I am moving thursday and Friday, and was moving my son in with me full time, and my daughter 1/2 time. Today the stbx calls and says she won't allow my son to move, that until there is an agreement in place she will not allow him to leave. I have a call in to my atty now, but won't talk to him until tomorrow. I hate this last minute stuff. My son wants to move, I want him to, but she is being adamant about this. It will all work out, but if I let myself, I could get really angry right now. Instead, I'm somehow staying calm.
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Again. I have to say it. She\'s jealous of everything about you. Your relationship with your kids to your relationship with others(womem). She\'s just making trouble and problems because she can and is still trying to control your life anyway she can. She\'s just being a bitch Steve. In the end your kid\'s will be with you. She looks like a bigger ass to them as well. They are older and know the game she is playing. They will only disrespect her for it. Sometimes kid\'s grow to hate the other parent for being hateful to the other. You have no choice to play her way for now. But someday the game will be over and you my friend will be declared the winner..
Sounds like she wants to control, staying calm is cause u have grown UP, you know what you want and desire, MOVED on and MOVING on with your life. lotz of hugs xxxx
Great job staying calm Steve. Not much you can do if she is going to be stubborn about it. I\'m sure things will work out eventually.
oh steve...i hope you get to have your son live w/you!!!!! hugs! trish
This is what I mean by twisted....nothing seems to be normal or go smoothly....always twisted....so sorry but we are like dish rags they ring out just to toss things back in our face after they fully agreed to things.....keeps our emotions twisted up...their way of controlling us....it is hard but try not to let her win...keep staying calm...it makes her power less controlling
I am not good at staying calm around my stbx so congratulations to you for doing that. I wish I just had someplace to move 2. It will all work out in the end your kids are old enough to state what they want and get it.