roller coaster

The good news is...... T did not take the $700 - our second son found his stash and apologized to T AND that I found the missing $100 - the bad news, however, was in T's room.  He still denies that one.  I can see why he flipped out because of being accused of taking his brother's money.  He has to realize because of his behaviors in the past that he has to accept that it's going to take a long time before we can trust him again. Because he was slipping I began to slip as well.  I am, however, trying to be more careful and I need to watch myself.  He didn't go to AA like he was supposed to.......oh well......he has to do it.  He's meeting with his PO tomorrow and will be read the riot act.  So,  I decided if he doesn't choose to go then --- fine.  I am not to going to get on his case.  He has to do it himself.  I also think 39 days isn't enough and if he continues down this path he will be sent to a 90 day place - which is prison-like......  I hope he doesn't get to that point.  The last few days have been better..... (I think)......