Ring still not returned
Hello to all my friends. I need some advice. How can someone go from treating you like the King of the world to the end of the world plaques. My ex fiance still has not returned my engagement ring. Should I ask her family members for some help on this matter. Right now I am so mad that I am thinking an eye for an eye. My friends say revenge, I personally do not want to go that route. I gave her everything, my heart, soul, and love. She threw that all away for someone she just met. I have forgiven her for that. As for my ring, I want that back. Any advice will help. Thanks and God bless us all.
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Try contacting her family first. No need for revenge, that doesn\'t help anything. If her family won\'t help, call an attorney. In a lot of states, she is considered to be in breach of a contract, and by going her own way, she broke it. Just a suggestion. Please do not fall into the viciousness of revenge. Just be fair.
I\'m not sure of protocol or etiquette here. My ex kept her engagement and wedding ring. If it is before marriage, I think the ring is supposed to be returned unless it was a \"gift\" given for Christmas, Birthday or other holiday. All you can do is ask. If she doesn\'t return it, that is on her and you\'ll have to let it go.
I can say that revenge or eye for an eye will not be productive and will have long-term consequences for you, emotionally and otherwise. Write down all that you\'d like to do or say, then put it away or burn it. Feel the anger and acknowledge the sources of it - what is it specifically that you are angry about, then work to let it pass. Doing otherwise just gives her power over you. It let\'s her control you and your emotions - you are angry and hurting while she doesn\'t know or care - she has moved on. I hope you can find your way to focus on the only person you can control - you, and focus on healing.