right decision

T-Man appears to be doing "well" despite the fact I know he's "doing something".  Having said that ~ last night he texting my husband's cell until my husband decided to answer it because we knew he was asking for $.  He wanted the money to take a 3 day trip (2 1/2 hours away) with his friends.  Last minute ~ everything is last minute.  He knows that that's how he will get what he wants ~ putting my husband on the spot.  I coached my husband and told him to say no.  We spent tons of $ this year on Christmas and we can't give anymore.  T told us to take back some of his gifts because he won't wear some of them.  We bought this stinker a $700+ camera for Christmas (he needs it for school) and then lots of other gifts.  Sorry buddy.  I told him we don't give money for Christmas anyway.  Hubby couldn't take the begging and handed the phone to me.  T really worked me but I held my ground.  After T hung up on me hubby was silent for sometime.  I knew he didn't completely agree with me but, at least, he didn't give me a hard time.  I told him I did not enjoy telling T no but we had to.  He has to earn it - either doing something here at home or through a job.  He won't apply for one.  
So T leaves anyway.  Apparently his friends are willing to "take care of him".