Rheumatoid Arthritis

my life definitely isn't where I thought it would be at 36. I'm on my second marriage, hate my job, I'm over weight and now I have been diagnosed with RA. I have more questions than I do minutes in the day. I have managed to stay strong and not break down yet even though I know it's coming. 

While I know this isn't a death sentence it is hard to deal with. Knowing that I don't know what's coming is the scariest part. This affects everyone differently. I know two people who have it and they are so different in their progression.