Revelation

Had a revelation sometime in the wee hours of the morning.  Haven't been sleeping and it is really trashing me.  I feel nauseated and Mr. Headache is tapping on my skull.Anway.....Why do I even read the elitist remarks?  They most always piss me off.  I don't have to read them, so.................................................................................................................Next subject:I think my husband is getting too stressed out.  I don't really know what to do to help him.  He has saved all his life, an incredible amount (he is very thrifty).  That is almost gone now with the stocks and the market crashing.I don't even look at my nest egg anymore, it's probaly the size of a Sandpiper's egg, and nothing I can do about it anyway.  Same with my health.   Really sucks but there it is.Back to Hubby....he has saved his entire life.  It's kinda a hobby with him.  He bought his first house at 24!  This is who he is.  Now the job he has worked his whole life probaly won't last another 5 years, which would have been a huge life change in and of itself but now his savings basically went 'poof' and he doesn't feel he has enough time to get stable again before he loses his job. (he's never been without one). I tell him we'll get by.  People do all the time.  Kinda hard to back that up as it FREAKS me out to lose our insurance, give up my most excellent health care group, live on the dole, etc.  Thing is, it hasn't happened yet.  Why worry and stress when you- 1.  don't know it's going to happen and- 2. there is nothing you could do about it if it does happen.  You gotta just keep on keeping on.   I just hope he doesn't cut his loses and run for it.