Required reading
My H typed this up for someone and he did it so nicely I decided to save it here so I can copy/paste, when i recommend these books, as I so frequently do. I labeled it required reading because that is what I believe it to be.
How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual For The Unfaithful by Linda MacDonald (A must read for the CS) Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass (The best book on what happens in affairs, how to deal with them and how to set and hold to appropriate boundaries. For both the CS and BS) His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley (A must read for marriage counseling, even if you've never had an affair. Even more so in helping to recover from one. It is highly recommended to read this book aloud together if possible.) Also, you may find the information at Surviving Infidelity site helpful. Especially the healing library: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/...
Also go to Healing Infidelity Through Faith and look at the articles in the news section. Very good. Here is a link to the table of contents:
http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/healing-infidelity-through-faith/news/
These same articles appear in the new book my H and I wrote that was just published called: Healing Infidelity by: Rick and Lenita Copple. Our book has a companion website: http://www.healinginfidelity.com/
How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual For The Unfaithful by Linda MacDonald (A must read for the CS) Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass (The best book on what happens in affairs, how to deal with them and how to set and hold to appropriate boundaries. For both the CS and BS) His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley (A must read for marriage counseling, even if you've never had an affair. Even more so in helping to recover from one. It is highly recommended to read this book aloud together if possible.) Also, you may find the information at Surviving Infidelity site helpful. Especially the healing library: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/...
Also go to Healing Infidelity Through Faith and look at the articles in the news section. Very good. Here is a link to the table of contents:
http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/healing-infidelity-through-faith/news/
These same articles appear in the new book my H and I wrote that was just published called: Healing Infidelity by: Rick and Lenita Copple. Our book has a companion website: http://www.healinginfidelity.com/
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I Found this link which is a free PDF version of the Linda J MacDonald book \"How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair\"
http://www.lindajmacdonald.com/HOW_TO_HELP_11-06-10_FINAL_pdf-.pdf
Thanks again for the both of you for opening up about such a private and trying time in your lives!! God Bless!!