Remain calm
I HAVE to remain calm. I know I can not let them get under my skin and react. It's so hard when I would never knowingly do an unkind act--- for them to say I was only after his money and mistreated him. Gee, If I was after his money, I"m actually very stupid. I never asked for a dime. I spent my money (that I earned) on food, clothes for both of us, my medical bills, his dogs food, and things for the house--plus worked a job that had benefits so we could have health insurance. Now he's saying I "ONLY worked at Walmart". He's saying we bought a new car to "try to save the marriage". He insisted on us trading because he felt it was getting too many miles on it. I did NOT want to trade.Don't fight with pigs--you just get dirty and they have a good time.
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Hang in there! I am starting to have the same kind of discussions with my soon to be ex and it is amazing how they now remember things. You can\'t let him ruin your day. I know its hard. I am saying it as much for you as for myself! They are trying to show their last bit of control over us. Just ignore all the bad, like I keep telling myself karma is a real b**ch! God knows what is right and in the end that is all that will matter!
Preserve you own well-being and just get through the process as best you can so you can move on. I\'m right there with you!
& your right, remain calm. & read Proverbs. But you might want to read a little about courtroom rules & the items & billable hours your lawyer is suppose to write all down for you. The very first step when you hire a lawyer is you are both suppose to sit down & type out your contract. Your lawyer is just your employee. Your the boss.This is the way it is suppose to work. Because if it don\'t then any one can say \"oh yea I\'m a Lawyer\".