Relationship in Recovery
Sunday afternoon, I'm on a break at work.....had a peaceful evening last night.....got good sleep....nice morning....life, if I stop to appreciate it, is good.... My bf "sneaked out" yesterday to buy me a Christmas present, and got interviewed by the local news team out talking to shoppers.....LOL.....he came in and "confessed" and apologized my present will not be a surprize this year.......it's on the news......hehehe Since he quit gambling, he has been a different person. He is nicer.....his bills are slowly beginning to get caught up.....he is much more open with me.....he is starting to think about rebuilding the relationships with his family. He surprizes me with flowers, a lovely card, brings home my favorite Won Ton Soup.....he has started working on his creative projects again.... We still have our issues.....but without the constant stress caused by gambling, our relationship has definitely improved. It may take a while for this all to sink in....I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop! Our lives may go in separate directions now that we aren't locked into being gambling partners....but what matters is we can both be free from the slavery of addiction...and are beginning to be free to grow as people... to renew and realize our dreams and goals....and to repair, rebuild, and renew our relationships with our family and friends as well. Wishing all my friends a wonderful day....and sending you my thanks for all the support I have been given... Big Hugs, Much Love....Dianne
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My relationship is \"in recovery\" too. Congratulations that it\'s going as smoothly as it is for you. I don\'t know yet if mine will survive these changes.
I\'m so glad to hear a happy Dianne! I know that things have been very stressful for you lately. It\'s wonderful to hear that things are on an up swing! Relish in the new relationship and let to go where it may, you just might be surprised. Peace and Love. Patty
Wow, I didn\'t realize the bf was still in the picture, sounds like you two are doing all the right things to try to make it work.. I am really happy that you are happy. So the whole local news viewers know what your present is.. that is so funny. Hope you have a great week. Love and hugs.
Wow, The kImbers didn\'t realize BF was still in the picture either, hmmm musy have missed something. Course, Memory is not so good either. LOL You sound Happy. I am Happy to hear you sound happy.
A man caught shopping on the news. Too funny. also very sweet!
Hugs my friend.
Love ya.
Kimber
Lmao .. sheesh , darn men......can\'t keep nothing a surprise got to let the \'\'whole world know\'.......lol....
WTG with \'both of YOU >. \'committment to change starts within each\'\'\'\'\'\'Growth\'\'\'\'\'....\'\'So inspired by your journel entry as \"I\" too \'\'\'\'became a better partner\'when gambling stopped \' .. It takes time \'\'\'\'\'\'lots of Patience.and that shoe.......is that the one that \'I\" always see on the \"HIghway\'........lmao....don\'t worry buy .. soft soled shoes , the don\'t make as much noise\'\'.
Be well,,,,and \'warm \'Blessings in your Recovery Relationship.....Amen..
sanr. p/s \'Hooters send off\'.......lol HOOT \'HOOT\"..
Sounds like you guys are doing great, like you sais who knows what the future will bring but you are both GF and living it one day at a time (o:
This is wonderful to read and the true blessing of recovery.- I am so glad you are both able to heal. Hugs and love Suzi
Dianne, this is such wonderful news to hear! I know that there were times that were difficult to stand your ground when it came to the BF, but you did and look at the wonderful outcome! I\'m so happy to hear of the \"little\" things he is doing for you....love that in a man! Too funny that he got caught on camera with your Christmas gift, but I am darned impressed that he was out getting it this early! That shows thought and planning going into the gift...another thing I love in a man :) Life sounds pretty darn good my friend. Yayyyyyyyyy!!!!
Love, Julie
Thanks for sharing your relationship recovery with us, seems we all were kinda wondering about your bf and what happened with him. Glad you stood your ground and he saw the light. Happy recovery to both of you. Seems his life is getting better too.
Happy Holidays,
Tessa
Diane that is great that you are getting along and you sound so happy. This addiction puts a huge strain on a relationship. I didn\'t realize it at the time but I was a completely differant person during my crazy gambling days which made my husband treat me differantly. Now that the fog has lifted I am alot nicer to him and he in turn to me. \"Sorry I carried on about my own relationship\". That is so sweet that he is bringing you some of you flowers and your favorites.
Hugs
Judy
it sounds like things are looking up for you. gambling free is such a wonderful place to be. i hope i have the strength you and your bf have. take care and keep up the good work. love t
Hi Dianne~ I do like this entry, sounds so nice that you and bf are doing better. He\'s out and about caught on the news...hilarious. Did you tell him that a second gift is now required? What\'s Christmas without a surprise gift? LOL. I am glad he\'s stopped gambling too; whether you remain together or go your separate ways, at least you\'ll have recovery and some semblance of sanity to lead you through....
love and hugs to you
brigette