Realization from tv show again

I'm not sure what it is about television shows but it seems that I learn a lot about myself when watching them. This time it was Grey's Anatomy. George and Izzy are talking about their relationship and realize that it is not their chemistry that is causing it to fail but the timing of it. This made me realize that i may have a chance with either of the two guys that I care about the most and want to be with ( yes I said two, my heart belongs to two guys). At the moment they are both in relationships but even though they are we still have had moments of desire when around each other. One of them has told me how they feel, and the other shows it every day, but he has also voiced it to others before. The one who shows it also happens to live with me now, the coworker that I moved in this past Sunday. I'm not sure what to do about anything when it comes to either guy. I guess all I can do is wait, I know the timing to be with either of them is wrong...... I just hope I didn't miss the right time already.