Really.....

Today I went by my dad's house after work to pick up my half sister's bird which my mom will be taking care of while she is in Americorps. He lives about five minutes from my job, which is a good hour from where I live (and my mom lives about ten minutes further away than I do). Anyway, I called my daughters to let them know what was going on, my dad beeped in while I was on the phone with my youngest. He was making sure I knew how to get to his house, as I've never been there. He talked to me the whole way there, then we had to break down the bird cage, load up the bird, etc. When I was leaving, I called my h to let him know I was on my way home. He proceeded to scream at me about how this was our entire problem. He has told me over and over that he just needs to know everything I am doing, I should have picked up the phone and called him (I tried to tell him I was doing this last night while he was throwing his tantrum), that my daughter shouldn't be more important than him. Anyway, while he was screaming at me, I took a wrong turn and ended up heading north instead of south on the highway. This then earned me, "you're an f***ing moron that's why you can't find anything." He then proceeded to hang up on me. About thirty minutes later he calls me back, asks where I am, and tells me he was trying to wait for me to get home because we need to "talk" about why I am always treating him so badly. He is going to the track tonight, then he hangs up again. Which only means that he will show up at about 2 or 3 in the morning and wake me up to berate me and have a "discussion" with me about what I am doing wrong in this relationship and in life. This will go on for about two hours until he feels he has suitably made his point, he will then expect me to perform oral sex on him so we can have sex and he can go to sleep. Knowing I have to be up at 6 to be at work in the morning! He freaking does this to me almost every stinking weekend. Just a rant.