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I'm not used to the lack of drama and pain. I'm not suicidal. My eating disorder has listened. I go outside more and play with Lucy. I read a book a week. What is so wrong with just being quiet. When my mom died I expected all this grief, but nothing's happened yet. So I ask you, dear friends. What's wrong with me?!!
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Honey...we all grieve in different ways...at different times....ther is Nothing Wrong with YOU!!! Just be You...we didn\'t come with instruction manuals, everyone is unique....
(((HUGS)))
When someone is so sick as your mom was for so long.There is a sense of relief and calmness when they pass.This is normal don\'t feel bad about it. Remember the things about your mom that made you smile. hugs-Stephanie
I have never grieved for anyone long and I have often felt that this means I am a cold person or something. I don\'t know why I am able to move on so easily so far. I am just glad you are doing so well, that really makes my day. Don\'t think you are defective or disloyal. I look at how you treated your mom when she was still here to see that you are a wonderfully loyal daughter.