Question

So in my previous post I refer to my little bean as a he/him. I know that we don't know what the sex is yet but I really don't like referring to my bean as an 'it'. Not sure why it just doesn't sound right to me. So what have you referred to your baby as it, him, her, it?!? Both my husband and father have questioned my labeling of him. Okay, just realized that it is only the men that seem to have an issue with it, huh! My DH said to me today "honey you really shouldn't refer to it as a him because you might be disappointed if it is a girl." I replied, 'no I would be, I would be thrilled!!' I know it is only 8 weeks until we find out but what should the name/label be?!? Thanks Ladies. I know a really deep, probing question. :)