putting out fires
today has been nothing but putting out fires, the x tried again to screw up the loan modification, I found out today after speaking with the school counsler about concerns of my son, grades and why I am not getting anymore calls from the school. He said nothing, I found out tonight he told my son, that all contact numbers were listed, ALL HERS AND NONE OF MINE, she changed them all from my number being the one to call. I am pissed. She does not stop f ing with me she just keeps going and going and yet I cry for this woman and our marriage, I cry becaus eof the pain she has inflicted on my son and I and yet she is the biggest pain in the ass.
My mother in law or x mother in law, is still on my side, she broke down on the phone, she told me she could hear my pain, I supose she is right. She just cant get over what he daughter has done!
My mother in law or x mother in law, is still on my side, she broke down on the phone, she told me she could hear my pain, I supose she is right. She just cant get over what he daughter has done!
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I am sorry for all the hassles your x is causing you. It\'s time to get tough, I suppose and that means contacting the school and your mortgage company and giving them the straight dope on WHO IS and who is NOT in charge here!
As for your mother-in-law, good for her! It is rare to find a case where blood ISN\'T thicker than water. And by the way, you can divorce your spouse, but you can\'t divorce your in-laws, so be glad she is sympathetic to what you are experiencing.
Your feelings for your X will change with time. It is very hard to accept their behavior when they are on a path to attempt to destroy you. I will continue to hold you in my thoughts and prayers.
I\'m floored everyday by what my stbx does or doesn\'t do, especially where his kids are involved. So sorry yours is being a PITA.
Yup, you\'ll get through it and it\'s hard, but you will. Have faith in yourself. You deserve much better than that my friend.