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that much worse if its a public figure of any sort because then they are also dealing with hypocrisy - the public telling them how great this person is and the truth is that person is the worst person that ever was. that much worse if thrown together because its family or school etc and always in your face. society really fucks people up. people should keep their mouths shut, like that guy that is mayor now in that small town, he is the worst person there is. a total criminal and he is mayor. wth? he's guilty of EVERYTHING including crimes against small children. i heard his 20 year old daughter is as bad as he is. what a screw up. amazing no one has killed them yet. seriously.
its really windy outside. some weirdo woke up the neighborhood last night (4:30 a.m. - not the foreign weirdo we usually deal with who they caught trespassing on the property behind us now, so we have to call the new owner and let him know she and some guy are trying to break into his house. she is saying to him, yell sammy, like you are looking for your animal. you would think this is a bad neighborhood, just because of her constant trespassing and whoever she recruits to trespass with her (though if he/she-recruit is over 18, its their own decision to do whatever they do).
so byn says to me that if rn does anything evil, you can't say anything much about it because rn's mother had schizophrenia (and killed rn's baby when the baby was 3 months old) and rn's father was a violent alcoholic. schizophrenia is genetic, so the odds are good that she could have it. shouldn't she be on meds if she has that? wth? what is it with people with mental disorders working in the medical field. she is a nurse. this is like n's mother, who is an RN nurse. the first time she didn't pass and switched her test with someone else's so she was basically a fraud-nurse. then her RN license expired (on purpose, her second husband did this to stop the madness of her working in the medical field) so she turns around and takes the test the computer way they have now, which is easier, and passes on her own. surprising everyone, including herself. she was a hairdresser before nursing. the deal with that is as long as she takes her medication for bipolar/schizophrenia they let her work in hospice, where its not as noticeable that her skills suck (her words). however, she doesn't always take her meds because she thinks she "doesn't need them". its part of the disorder when people with bipolar or schizophrenia think this. then everyone around her sits there saying, YES you DO, you definitely need them - c is totally erratic and thinks her fantasies about others and reality in general is real and when reality stares her in the face she totally flips because her fantasies and reality never match up. (its the schizophrenic part of bipolar, the boundaries are missing). like she thought our office didn't exist (this is many years ago and she thought the photography company i was with didn't exist. she thought this even though i left for work daily and she met my boss (its more than that but whatever....) when she saw the office park entrances are in the back of the office park and so is the parking area and the front is this huge lawn and fountain (which to be honest is common with office parks) she totally flipped out. i mean like a banchee. her friend had to go there with her and show her the directory out front and like SHOW her what an office park looks like. then i hear about it from our cfo because she actually showed up at our office and he and his wife and chester sitting there laughing themself to tears saying, you realize n's mother is a total loon don't you (they claim she kept coming back until they told her they would call the police). we aren't open to the public, so what are you doing here. when i told them she is a nurse, they were HORRIFIED. i think our cfo called the state on her, but you can't fire people for being schizophrenic if they are doing their job. scary isn't it, what if its a doctor doing surgery? c had to see her therapist and everything. and n says to me, you realize my mother is crazy right? lol. i'm surprised i didn't faint, she is CRAZY and she knows where i work. great. she couldn't comprehend any of the realities at all and then would try to get jobs doing what i was doing (or what other people do for a living) and would fail. and n would try to reason with her that you need schooling and certifications for most jobs and that c is setting herself up to fail. verrrry strange. the reason she thought she could do any of it without any education in any of it i'll never understand? i'm not good with crazy people at all so i just ignored it and got out of that whole situation as quickly as i could. and j sits there saying i told you so - she had stolen mail and roses he sent and that was way early on, then she was stealing vegetables from my garden via her newest boyfriend. who the hell does stuff like that? but it takes time to find these things out. if you show her video of how she acts when a banchee, she will believe she is in need of her meds, otherwise she won't believe there is anything wrong, even when its pointed out. why bother with someone like that? gross! so now she is with her third husband who was a friend from high school because he is the only person willing to put up with her when she isn't on her meds, he's the same "friend" she used to try to fix up with people even when no one was interested - both people. he says that is also part of her disorder. wth? lol. its part of her acting out, like she wanted to date him, so instead she would try to have other people date him. weird.
with rn, its like, she must be doing this to patients as well then. how common is shit like this. hope i remember if i'm around her to byob kind of thing and don't leave it unattended. the other day i thought, she is better than maryd because at least she does rescue and isn't callous. maryd is seriously callous, but she is a former accountant, the removed-and-cold thing kind of go with that. but then the mental thing pops up with rn and its like, you are friggin DANGEROUS and you are a nurse. byn says if you point it out, rn will agree with you so she isn't as far gone as many people. rn will say, she knows she has a problem. well that is great that you know, but how many people have you killed or damaged with your actions from this "problem"? she does rescue, is she like bda's mom who was also a nurse, do you pick and choose randomly who you help and who you kill? seriously. very scary crap. glad i don't work in a hospital - they claim that a hospital is the most dangerous place to be because of all the crap that is in there that can damage you. so then i think, well, at least maryd isn't some kind of whacko killer who may do something to a person's food or drink, even though she is selfish and doesn't do any charity work at all. lol. its six of one and half dozen of the other. anyone NORMAL out there? or should i say, is there anyone who is not a psychokiller, while at the same time not a drama-freak who will make me have an anxiety attack every time i talk to them. lol.
also reminds me of that guy from ballroom dance who was from north bergen - don't remember his name but for YEARS after he stopped working there my former boss said he would stop in and tell him crazy-ass stories trying to mar people's reputations or have other's fired and gb would sit there bored and annoyed saying, that person doesn't work here, why are you here. or you don't know anyone here so why are you here telling me shit about people you don't know. gb said it went on for YEARS. wth? lol. glad i don't own a business where people can locate me for years, that must suck. and what is it with north bergen? there was a he/she in the private business school i went to during my teens. he/she father was a prosecutor and after the first year he/she stopped getting shots and started looking more like a guy. he/she also started stalking people from school. girls and guys and basically doing the same kind of thing as this guy from dance and its like, don't you have anything better to do? never occurred to me back then, that that is a mental disorder, but of course it is. its a predator. he/she was loren at that school and "lorne" everywhere else. lorne was the real name. no one cared about the he/she thing anyway, but the stalking was nuts. he/she would show up EVERYWHERE. at your house, work, doctor's office, the school i went to after that, the dean of our school was like, what are you doing here miss/mister? our dean was a lawyer as well and called he/she's father who was a lawyer, but he wouldn't get involved because by then he/she was living elsewhere and way over 18. the whole thing sounded dangerous to me - it was pure stalking, it wasn't friendly at all. creepy. bobf who was in our class and became gay at that time was afraid of her/him. he said those were the worst ones because its unpredictable. i'd heard the dancer guy sold and moved to the shore and then sold again and moved right back to north bergen and its like WHY would anyone do that. so our former boss had to deal with all kinds of crap from him again. he didn't comprehend that his behavior was inappropriate. he became a totally different person once he wasn't employed there anymore. so does north bergen breed a lot of unstable people? makes you wonder, like they will find something in the water like in the movie erin brockovich.
love this site! so much information!
Li
that much worse if its a public figure of any sort because then they are also dealing with hypocrisy - the public telling them how great this person is and the truth is that person is the worst person that ever was. that much worse if thrown together because its family or school etc and always in your face. society really fucks people up. people should keep their mouths shut, like that guy that is mayor now in that small town, he is the worst person there is. a total criminal and he is mayor. wth? he's guilty of EVERYTHING including crimes against small children. i heard his 20 year old daughter is as bad as he is. what a screw up. amazing no one has killed them yet. seriously.
its really windy outside. some weirdo woke up the neighborhood last night (4:30 a.m. - not the foreign weirdo we usually deal with who they caught trespassing on the property behind us now, so we have to call the new owner and let him know she and some guy are trying to break into his house. she is saying to him, yell sammy, like you are looking for your animal. you would think this is a bad neighborhood, just because of her constant trespassing and whoever she recruits to trespass with her (though if he/she-recruit is over 18, its their own decision to do whatever they do).
so byn says to me that if rn does anything evil, you can't say anything much about it because rn's mother had schizophrenia (and killed rn's baby when the baby was 3 months old) and rn's father was a violent alcoholic. schizophrenia is genetic, so the odds are good that she could have it. shouldn't she be on meds if she has that? wth? what is it with people with mental disorders working in the medical field. she is a nurse. this is like n's mother, who is an RN nurse. the first time she didn't pass and switched her test with someone else's so she was basically a fraud-nurse. then her RN license expired (on purpose, her second husband did this to stop the madness of her working in the medical field) so she turns around and takes the test the computer way they have now, which is easier, and passes on her own. surprising everyone, including herself. she was a hairdresser before nursing. the deal with that is as long as she takes her medication for bipolar/schizophrenia they let her work in hospice, where its not as noticeable that her skills suck (her words). however, she doesn't always take her meds because she thinks she "doesn't need them". its part of the disorder when people with bipolar or schizophrenia think this. then everyone around her sits there saying, YES you DO, you definitely need them - c is totally erratic and thinks her fantasies about others and reality in general is real and when reality stares her in the face she totally flips because her fantasies and reality never match up. (its the schizophrenic part of bipolar, the boundaries are missing). like she thought our office didn't exist (this is many years ago and she thought the photography company i was with didn't exist. she thought this even though i left for work daily and she met my boss (its more than that but whatever....) when she saw the office park entrances are in the back of the office park and so is the parking area and the front is this huge lawn and fountain (which to be honest is common with office parks) she totally flipped out. i mean like a banchee. her friend had to go there with her and show her the directory out front and like SHOW her what an office park looks like. then i hear about it from our cfo because she actually showed up at our office and he and his wife and chester sitting there laughing themself to tears saying, you realize n's mother is a total loon don't you (they claim she kept coming back until they told her they would call the police). we aren't open to the public, so what are you doing here. when i told them she is a nurse, they were HORRIFIED. i think our cfo called the state on her, but you can't fire people for being schizophrenic if they are doing their job. scary isn't it, what if its a doctor doing surgery? c had to see her therapist and everything. and n says to me, you realize my mother is crazy right? lol. i'm surprised i didn't faint, she is CRAZY and she knows where i work. great. she couldn't comprehend any of the realities at all and then would try to get jobs doing what i was doing (or what other people do for a living) and would fail. and n would try to reason with her that you need schooling and certifications for most jobs and that c is setting herself up to fail. verrrry strange. the reason she thought she could do any of it without any education in any of it i'll never understand? i'm not good with crazy people at all so i just ignored it and got out of that whole situation as quickly as i could. and j sits there saying i told you so - she had stolen mail and roses he sent and that was way early on, then she was stealing vegetables from my garden via her newest boyfriend. who the hell does stuff like that? but it takes time to find these things out. if you show her video of how she acts when a banchee, she will believe she is in need of her meds, otherwise she won't believe there is anything wrong, even when its pointed out. why bother with someone like that? gross! so now she is with her third husband who was a friend from high school because he is the only person willing to put up with her when she isn't on her meds, he's the same "friend" she used to try to fix up with people even when no one was interested - both people. he says that is also part of her disorder. wth? lol. its part of her acting out, like she wanted to date him, so instead she would try to have other people date him. weird.
with rn, its like, she must be doing this to patients as well then. how common is shit like this. hope i remember if i'm around her to byob kind of thing and don't leave it unattended. the other day i thought, she is better than maryd because at least she does rescue and isn't callous. maryd is seriously callous, but she is a former accountant, the removed-and-cold thing kind of go with that. but then the mental thing pops up with rn and its like, you are friggin DANGEROUS and you are a nurse. byn says if you point it out, rn will agree with you so she isn't as far gone as many people. rn will say, she knows she has a problem. well that is great that you know, but how many people have you killed or damaged with your actions from this "problem"? she does rescue, is she like bda's mom who was also a nurse, do you pick and choose randomly who you help and who you kill? seriously. very scary crap. glad i don't work in a hospital - they claim that a hospital is the most dangerous place to be because of all the crap that is in there that can damage you. so then i think, well, at least maryd isn't some kind of whacko killer who may do something to a person's food or drink, even though she is selfish and doesn't do any charity work at all. lol. its six of one and half dozen of the other. anyone NORMAL out there? or should i say, is there anyone who is not a psychokiller, while at the same time not a drama-freak who will make me have an anxiety attack every time i talk to them. lol.
also reminds me of that guy from ballroom dance who was from north bergen - don't remember his name but for YEARS after he stopped working there my former boss said he would stop in and tell him crazy-ass stories trying to mar people's reputations or have other's fired and gb would sit there bored and annoyed saying, that person doesn't work here, why are you here. or you don't know anyone here so why are you here telling me shit about people you don't know. gb said it went on for YEARS. wth? lol. glad i don't own a business where people can locate me for years, that must suck. and what is it with north bergen? there was a he/she in the private business school i went to during my teens. he/she father was a prosecutor and after the first year he/she stopped getting shots and started looking more like a guy. he/she also started stalking people from school. girls and guys and basically doing the same kind of thing as this guy from dance and its like, don't you have anything better to do? never occurred to me back then, that that is a mental disorder, but of course it is. its a predator. he/she was loren at that school and "lorne" everywhere else. lorne was the real name. no one cared about the he/she thing anyway, but the stalking was nuts. he/she would show up EVERYWHERE. at your house, work, doctor's office, the school i went to after that, the dean of our school was like, what are you doing here miss/mister? our dean was a lawyer as well and called he/she's father who was a lawyer, but he wouldn't get involved because by then he/she was living elsewhere and way over 18. the whole thing sounded dangerous to me - it was pure stalking, it wasn't friendly at all. creepy. bobf who was in our class and became gay at that time was afraid of her/him. he said those were the worst ones because its unpredictable. i'd heard the dancer guy sold and moved to the shore and then sold again and moved right back to north bergen and its like WHY would anyone do that. so our former boss had to deal with all kinds of crap from him again. he didn't comprehend that his behavior was inappropriate. he became a totally different person once he wasn't employed there anymore. so does north bergen breed a lot of unstable people? makes you wonder, like they will find something in the water like in the movie erin brockovich.
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when i first posted the chart it didn\'t post i guess. then i started rambling about different crazies, didn\'t realize it was so long. glad it saved, a lot of the time it doesn\'t when its long.
so the other thing byn says is the phone thing. rn will stop him when he is on the phone and she thinks he isn\'t realllly on the phone and he has to show her that he is. wtf is that? kids do that at a young age, and young teens, but generally unless the person is mental, they don\'t do that. so does that mean SHE does that or does that mean she is losing it? this is the same person that at first thought we didn\'t really live in our house, this is several years ago....then a few years later she thought we had just moved into our house, and its like, rn you were here five years ago so why would you think its a few months. then i realized she is 62, so i said to byn, that it could be early dementia. he says no, she has acted like that the entire time he has known her and that is like 15 years. don\'t know what to think of any of it. has she been tested for bipolar, as that has a schizophrenia dimension as well. i\'ve met more people in north florida that have bipolar than anywhere i ever lived. i said that to byn as well and he says it could be that there is a lot of alcoholism here and it causes it OR it could be it wasn\'t known well in the 90\'s. i think it was still called manic depression back then. it reminds me of the book I never promised you a rose garden, don\'t remember what the diagnosis was with that. it was required reading in high school - that book and catcher in the rye. love catcher in the rye.
what i just realized as well, with n\'s mother, she expected all of us to work as a nurse or receptionist does, 9-5 or something similar in one place. if you explained to her that we are in multiple locations and come and go as we please, she couldn\'t comprehend it. so we told her its \"executive sales\" because she understands hierarchies and that she comprehends. now is that oppression making people like that? stu, who was another unstable, never comprehended that all of us went to upenn, even though he handled the rentals for his mother\'s house and everyone was from upenn or drexel. he even lied about jay, which stunned me because he knew him for years. he also couldn\'t comprehend that all of us had attended multiple schools. wth? who doesn\'t? some of the guys were going for phd\'s what did he expect them to be in one place all the way through? so strange. if i didn\'t know for a fact that stu was a college grad from drew, i would have thought he had no education at all. stu used to bully his sister and sabotaged her education so that she never completed college, the same as bda did to her older brother s. now, what possible reason does a person have for doing that besides that they are mental. his older siblings went to college and he didn\'t go after them. with bda, she was younger than s, but always bullied and sabotaged that is why when others were leaving for college, they had to send her away somewhere because of what she does. so she moves and does the same kind of thing to people where she moved, except that was in the work force. what a weirdo. but she also had bipolar, just like the rest of them, and wouldn\'t take her meds most of the time. so now i\'m trying to figure out, does rn have bipolar with schizophrenia because the stuff she dreams up is delusional and strange and why THINK like that at all? or does she have some kind of dementia? does any book address the fact that some of these bipolar/schizophrenic people are also poisoning people, or is that already known with that? creepy. i had totally forgotten that she does the phone thing. to be honest, just that alone, i would think she is losing it or already lost it.
i also forgot to mention that n\'s mother also tried to steal other people\'s contracts and say they were her\'s but got caught immediately and we were like, what in the world are you doing here. marc our cfo said our manager made it worse by letting her go on a sales call with him as a trainee, which she lost for him by deciding to talk when she knew NOTHING about what we do for a living. he couldn\'t believe it. marc sent me out to save the sale. wrote it up and did drawings for them as well and then she started stalking the people and they had to call the police on her. and n kept saying to her if you would just take your medication, how embarrassing for him. she seemed oblivious to it. amazing. then she finds out the contracts were worth over $500 for the sales person, which was a lot back then for one day and she says, can\'t we say its her\'s and then she will give us the cash back on it. and its like WHAT? why would anyone do that. so weird. our manager said she started stalking him as well, so he had to go to court and get a restraining order. he was reallllly good looking, so probably went through something like this before. n is saying to his mom, now you have two restraining orders out -- three if you include the one where you can\'t visit your ex-husband or the two stepdaughters. please just take your medication. sooooo creepy. sad.
brave actions that day could have prevented something truly awful from happening. Non-family abductions where a stranger snatches a child are incredibly rare and make up only 1 percent of abductions, but they are also the most deadly. The Department of Justice notes that these kidnappings are more likely to result in a child\'s extended or permanent disappearance or death.
We have a tendency to panic when it comes to the idea of kids around strangers, perhaps because the \"what ifs\" are too terrible to imagine.