Psychopaths are also narcissists//two more babies from p//triplets//patience is golden
"Good things come to those who wait."
"Patience is golden."
So, the latest asshole is gone. lol. I had considered calling it in because he used the f-word at one of the guys - like a week or two after he started here. wth? he complains CONSTANTLY and is hostile insisting that rules should be changed. realllly? you haven't even been here a year, but you want to change the rules. hmmm. a grown man, around age 55 and you don't know how to lie-low your first year, conform a bit, do your job, keep your mouth basically shut and always have good manners. you don't know how to do that? wth? he actually started asking for "special treatment". he is serious. WHY would he or anyone get special treatment and for what? just follow the rules. life isn't that hard.
so, i come into work and there are two new ones waiting to train. and i say what happened. he got into it with an area supervisor, a woman from hialeah who recently moved here. lol. i didn't ask for details, i just started laughing. so saved me a phone call. this has been going on for about five months now. grrrrr. its funny, because he was trying to be friendly for a change the day before they terminated him.
tried finishing up some pruning and a raccoon showed up at 9:30 a.m., so i screamed and ran. reached rn to ask her about it, she has wildlife certification and she said its because the man is sawing down the trees and there are probably possum and raccoons with homes in there, where are they supposed to go? good question. then i show up on the opposite side of the same cluster of trees pruning and pulling out branches. she says a mother raccoon is out during the morning looking for food while her young sleep, at night the young are awake because they are nocturnal and she has to stay with them. she says they do the same thing to the bears and go on and on about bears showing up, they take away the bear's forest, where are the bears supposed to go?
the cat with the black eyes is still missing! guess i'll start knocking door to door. wth?
two more human babies were born. this is really an odd year. p's granddaughter and great-grandaughter both had babies. that p is a friend of rn's - one of them is the one that owes p tons of money and she lost two of her houses because of her and one of the other grandchildren, not the p i know from just south of here. the great-grandaughter is in high school and the father is a rapper. i said to rn, that is very "in" now, and has been for about twenty years. won't get into that, but lots of discussion on it. rn is thinking as it was in the 70's and 80's, but the 90's and now isn't anything like the 70's and 80's. one of the lawyers i knew from nyc who is also a drummer in a band adopted that way and he is about ten now. its surprising because when they had their own 18 years before that, they didn't raise her and weren't at all into it. but 18 years is a long time and things change. which prompted discussion about triplets...
when i was still a pro-photographer in the 90's, we went through a period of lots of TRIPLETS being born and photographed, at the end of the 90's (those kids are graduating high school now and in the passed couple of years). wonder what its like to go to school with triplets? lol. amazing. i had been shooting pro for about 7 years by then and all of a sudden triplets all over the place. i actually called our main office to see if it was just in the territory i was covering (like something in the water?) or happening in general. the women with the triplets claimed not to be on fertility drugs at all. one of them had had one daughter after a few years of marriage, and then nothing for over five years and then bam triplets. she thought it was from being on bc pills for ten years before being married. i used to assume they were all on chlomid which often produces twins. before this, you didn't see triplets at all, so big surprise. this year is just loaded with surprises (and i hate surprises actually. lol.)
Psychopaths are also narcissists, so are all narcissists psychopaths? wouldn't that be revealing.
Abuse, Denial and Psychopathy. No one should ever have to put up with emotional or physical abuse anywhere,
and if the abuser can’t acknowledge the fact that there’s a problem in the first place, there’s no chance that anything will change.
Psychopathy, is a pattern of easy lies and remorseless manipulation, indicates that the abuser never puts themself in others’ shoes — they lack the ability to empathize with others, and don't have a conscience.
“Abusers are 100 percent responsible for their abuse, and only they can stop it,” Malkin concluded. Until they do, its not safe to interact with them on any level and its doubtful it will ever be safe to be around them. Avoid them completely.
hmmm people do not change, they just get better at covering up what they really are. they stay as is. the rest is just a mask.
"Patience is golden."
So, the latest asshole is gone. lol. I had considered calling it in because he used the f-word at one of the guys - like a week or two after he started here. wth? he complains CONSTANTLY and is hostile insisting that rules should be changed. realllly? you haven't even been here a year, but you want to change the rules. hmmm. a grown man, around age 55 and you don't know how to lie-low your first year, conform a bit, do your job, keep your mouth basically shut and always have good manners. you don't know how to do that? wth? he actually started asking for "special treatment". he is serious. WHY would he or anyone get special treatment and for what? just follow the rules. life isn't that hard.
so, i come into work and there are two new ones waiting to train. and i say what happened. he got into it with an area supervisor, a woman from hialeah who recently moved here. lol. i didn't ask for details, i just started laughing. so saved me a phone call. this has been going on for about five months now. grrrrr. its funny, because he was trying to be friendly for a change the day before they terminated him.
tried finishing up some pruning and a raccoon showed up at 9:30 a.m., so i screamed and ran. reached rn to ask her about it, she has wildlife certification and she said its because the man is sawing down the trees and there are probably possum and raccoons with homes in there, where are they supposed to go? good question. then i show up on the opposite side of the same cluster of trees pruning and pulling out branches. she says a mother raccoon is out during the morning looking for food while her young sleep, at night the young are awake because they are nocturnal and she has to stay with them. she says they do the same thing to the bears and go on and on about bears showing up, they take away the bear's forest, where are the bears supposed to go?
the cat with the black eyes is still missing! guess i'll start knocking door to door. wth?
two more human babies were born. this is really an odd year. p's granddaughter and great-grandaughter both had babies. that p is a friend of rn's - one of them is the one that owes p tons of money and she lost two of her houses because of her and one of the other grandchildren, not the p i know from just south of here. the great-grandaughter is in high school and the father is a rapper. i said to rn, that is very "in" now, and has been for about twenty years. won't get into that, but lots of discussion on it. rn is thinking as it was in the 70's and 80's, but the 90's and now isn't anything like the 70's and 80's. one of the lawyers i knew from nyc who is also a drummer in a band adopted that way and he is about ten now. its surprising because when they had their own 18 years before that, they didn't raise her and weren't at all into it. but 18 years is a long time and things change. which prompted discussion about triplets...
when i was still a pro-photographer in the 90's, we went through a period of lots of TRIPLETS being born and photographed, at the end of the 90's (those kids are graduating high school now and in the passed couple of years). wonder what its like to go to school with triplets? lol. amazing. i had been shooting pro for about 7 years by then and all of a sudden triplets all over the place. i actually called our main office to see if it was just in the territory i was covering (like something in the water?) or happening in general. the women with the triplets claimed not to be on fertility drugs at all. one of them had had one daughter after a few years of marriage, and then nothing for over five years and then bam triplets. she thought it was from being on bc pills for ten years before being married. i used to assume they were all on chlomid which often produces twins. before this, you didn't see triplets at all, so big surprise. this year is just loaded with surprises (and i hate surprises actually. lol.)
Psychopaths are also narcissists, so are all narcissists psychopaths? wouldn't that be revealing.
Abuse, Denial and Psychopathy. No one should ever have to put up with emotional or physical abuse anywhere,
and if the abuser can’t acknowledge the fact that there’s a problem in the first place, there’s no chance that anything will change.
Psychopathy, is a pattern of easy lies and remorseless manipulation, indicates that the abuser never puts themself in others’ shoes — they lack the ability to empathize with others, and don't have a conscience.
“Abusers are 100 percent responsible for their abuse, and only they can stop it,” Malkin concluded. Until they do, its not safe to interact with them on any level and its doubtful it will ever be safe to be around them. Avoid them completely.
hmmm people do not change, they just get better at covering up what they really are. they stay as is. the rest is just a mask.
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\"Psychopathy, is a pattern of easy lies and remorseless manipulation, indicates that the abuser never puts themself in others shoes they lack the ability to empathize with others, and don\'t have a conscience.\" sounds like lawyers. seriously.
sweet potatoes. there are lots of twins and triplets in nigeria because of the sweet potatoes in their diet.
unfortunately, there are lots of people in their 50s, 60s, and older, who dont know how to behave---i met enough in my hometown, before moving.
a couple weeks ago in the local paper was an article of somebody a few miles away in their 60s who the police cited for playing loud music.
As adults, we can make a decision to \"avoid them completely\" (psychopaths, narcissists). But what if you\'re a child and the psychopath is your father? There is no escape. And the conditioning sets you up to choose similar men because it\'s the only thing you know. Eventually, of course, one learns to avoid them, but oh the damage done by the time that occurs!