Psychic Vampyres
Went to the dog park as usual this morning. We went up to the top where there's more breeze, lots of shade... one of the evening regulars came in with his dog and my dogs did AWESOME.... they stayed lying in the shade, just watching. The training is WORKING!!!
Another regular came in - a friend who has been ill for some time. So since my dogs were hot and in need of some water, we all went down to the bottom to say hi and gets some drinks.
The regular that I previously mentioned must have some issues. I could FEEL the anger eminating from him. And apparently my friend could too... because suddenly she was complaining about everything... about the heat, about getting up too early for the dog park, about how some people didn't clean up after their dogs. It felt almost like they were both accusing MY dogs of leaving the messes and as if he was angry that I was just there.
But, nice person that I am, I just went and cleaned it up without saying a word.... no skin off my back since I usually do this every day anyways.... and my friend started searching for the rake and scoop to clean up around the perimeter. And even though the angry guy complained too, did he help clean up at all? Of course not. He got her the rake, appeared angrier, and then wandered off to play with his dog...
And as I was leaving, I thought WOW! That angry energy just drained me... made me feel insecure (what the heck?) My instincts were telling me RUN since that's the last thing I need right now and I just made the excuse that I had to get to work and left. Gonna file this under "kind of people to avoid in future".
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Another regular came in - a friend who has been ill for some time. So since my dogs were hot and in need of some water, we all went down to the bottom to say hi and gets some drinks.
The regular that I previously mentioned must have some issues. I could FEEL the anger eminating from him. And apparently my friend could too... because suddenly she was complaining about everything... about the heat, about getting up too early for the dog park, about how some people didn't clean up after their dogs. It felt almost like they were both accusing MY dogs of leaving the messes and as if he was angry that I was just there.
But, nice person that I am, I just went and cleaned it up without saying a word.... no skin off my back since I usually do this every day anyways.... and my friend started searching for the rake and scoop to clean up around the perimeter. And even though the angry guy complained too, did he help clean up at all? Of course not. He got her the rake, appeared angrier, and then wandered off to play with his dog...
And as I was leaving, I thought WOW! That angry energy just drained me... made me feel insecure (what the heck?) My instincts were telling me RUN since that's the last thing I need right now and I just made the excuse that I had to get to work and left. Gonna file this under "kind of people to avoid in future".
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Chapter 3 in Women Who Run With The Wolves... the story of Vasalisa and Baba Yaga and the explanation about following our instincts, how to find people that helps us find and keep ourselves.... how timely!
What\'s it mean? I\'m being prepped for my next stage and it\'s a BIG ONE... getting ready to meet \"someone\"...
OMG, Chapter 4, \"The Mate: Union with the Other\"...
\"Mother and Father of God are still said to roll about in their spring bed, making thunder\".... (grinning) I\'m never going to watch the next storm the same way again, lol.
You are right, negative energy is draining and can be contagious. Steer clear of those type of people. Thanks for all your responses on my journal. You are a positive energy for me!
Surround yourself with positive people the bes that you can. Anger and emotions are contagious so that is a good obesrvation you made and a good plan to avoid people like this in the future.