Pros & Cons

PROS:
Good man
handsome
great father
caring
loves the same things I do
dedicated to work
a great provider for our family
dedicated to our children
can fix anything around the house
great lover
devoted to family
loving
funny
willing to help anyone
not judgemental about me
helps with housework
helps with kids
doesn't complain when I am sick
does the laundry
does the dishes
 
CONS:
Cheated on me with my best friend (who was also next door neighbor)
unfaithful when things were not great in our marriage
Liar
Unemotional
Didn't protect me from his family's hatred
Selfish
Hurt me horribly
 
So, does the pros outweigh the cons...I don't know!  I wish I knew.  I needed to list things so that I can help to make a decision as to whether I can save my marriage or not.  I need to be able to make sense of what I am feeling.  I need to find a way to get back my love for him.