pro\con list
A friend said I should make a pro\con list on the TN\MS idea,ok so here it is:
1. Ms is where the family is
2. Ms is a little (not much) cheaper to live in
3.Could visit grave more
4.Be around parent's more to where I could check in on Mother (possible alzheimers)and help daddy with her when it gets bad.
Now for TN
1. Tn is a much better state
2. Tn has much better schools
3.Courtney (daughter) has so many friends here and none to speak of in MS
4. Courtney is doing well in school and has herself a job ambition to be a cosmotologist
5.The trailer is paid for and it is mine where I can have pets and paint and decorate,there we would end up renting and possibly not be able to have pets
6. There are jobs here,hardly any there,even though I have not found 1 yet here,I am praying that I will and believe in God's time I will
7.There are thing's that we love to do here and even though money is tight I will end up finding a way to do some of them
8. Maybe this one should have been closer to the top,our church,we like it alot,the preacher is great and we would miss it and him
That's all I can think of at the moment,we have few friend's here (me and Trey) and most of the people we know are more intrested in how much you are going to pay them to help you then doing it out of christian charity or respect for a widow,but that's my main complaint,I know in MS I would have more help but then again I wouldn't have a trailer to have to have help with.
Any advice?
1. Ms is where the family is
2. Ms is a little (not much) cheaper to live in
3.Could visit grave more
4.Be around parent's more to where I could check in on Mother (possible alzheimers)and help daddy with her when it gets bad.
Now for TN
1. Tn is a much better state
2. Tn has much better schools
3.Courtney (daughter) has so many friends here and none to speak of in MS
4. Courtney is doing well in school and has herself a job ambition to be a cosmotologist
5.The trailer is paid for and it is mine where I can have pets and paint and decorate,there we would end up renting and possibly not be able to have pets
6. There are jobs here,hardly any there,even though I have not found 1 yet here,I am praying that I will and believe in God's time I will
7.There are thing's that we love to do here and even though money is tight I will end up finding a way to do some of them
8. Maybe this one should have been closer to the top,our church,we like it alot,the preacher is great and we would miss it and him
That's all I can think of at the moment,we have few friend's here (me and Trey) and most of the people we know are more intrested in how much you are going to pay them to help you then doing it out of christian charity or respect for a widow,but that's my main complaint,I know in MS I would have more help but then again I wouldn't have a trailer to have to have help with.
Any advice?
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Would you be able to live with your parents-tell you what -if I had parents to go to I surely would!!!I miss my parents-they always took good care of me.when in doubt think it over.....and no, I\'m not ok..this is painful but I\'m surviving.For now
Mary, it is up to God not our own will. So if you have more for TN are you happy with this decision?
Remember, I said when you start doing the will of God you will know it and you will have peace.
Give it a few days to sink in and ask God if TN is the place, I think if it is, he will start sending his angels.
Hugs & God Bless,
Judy