Pregnancy Test
So sad to say that I received the news of a BFN. Of course they dont give you any explanation, which is okay, but makes it that much harder to deal with the news, the unanswered questions. Beginning to fall into a funk, and a little tired of hearing stay positive! and its in Gods hands. Well if it was, then I would have conceived naturally, right? Regardless, I know I may sound awful, but I guess I really had hope and faith that it was going to work. Trying to pull myself together for round 2. Since I was unable to freeze any last cycle, will have to do the shots again. Hopefully I can speak with the doctor and come up with a better plan, but unsure what to do with myself at the moment.
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I\'m so so sorry kathleen
I\'m so sorry. There is nothing anyone can say to make it okay. All you can do is try your best to get through it and try again. Sending you a huge hug and hoping for BFP on the 2nd round.
I\'m so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and really hoping you get a great new plan for next cycle.
Thanks ladies I appreciate the support so much!
I\'m so sorry Kathleen. Thinking and praying for you.
I\'m so sorry Kathleen. I totally understand what you are going through. I had the same result my first time around with none to freeze. And sometimes I think if I never again hear that God has a plan or there is a reason for every thing I would be a much happier person! All I can say to you is try to stay positive for the next go around. The doctors learn more about your body and what it needs to be successful with each try. Sometimes it helps to tell the doctors that this is the last time you are going through this, (whether its true or not) it just seems to light a fire under them or something ;-). I am finding that since I told my doctor that he is doing everything he can to get the meds right and make our odds better this time. When will you start again? I\'ll be thinking of you and checking in. Let me know if you ever need anything!
Ugh! Just realized I said \"stay positive\"...the exact thing you did not want to hear! Sorry! I guess it has become a habit!
Heather thank you reading your response makes me feel better. I was thinking that they could adjust stuff, whether it be with the medicine or maybe try to understand why they were thriving. I am not sure, I made an appointment to sit down and talk to dr, I am thinking hopefully soon, because I go back to my second job come spring and I want to make sure I have enough rest time! Definitely trying to stay positive, and maybe I should reword that! Because when it comes from you guys, its easier to listen too because we are all in the same boat.
Ugh. I\'m so sorry and feeling down about your news. I can\'t wait to hear what the docs\' thoughts are on your cycle & how/if the protocol will change with your next one. I, too, felt the same pressure with my cycle (having none to freeze). It is a daunting thought, knowing you\'ll go back to the starting line. But you know what? You are tough as nails and have the right spirit and grace to confront this challenge. Sending hugs & support your way..,
I\'m so sorry, hopefully we will both be successful next cycle. It is very hard to stay positive and I totally understand what you mean when people tell you to stay positive. I have a friend who chose not to have kids and now is in a position where she can\'t, well physically she probably could but her husband is older and has 3 adult children and he doesn\'t want any more kids. So she always feels like she knows what I am going through and tries to be supportive but she always says those phrases that annoy us so...\"stay positive\"...\"it will happen when it\'s meant to,\" etc. Just know that you have people going through the same thing and you aren\'t alone, we are in this together! I\'ll keep praying for you.
Thanks girls, I am trying to get back on track and stay positive, its like such a blow when you get that BFN, but am lucky that I have you girls and my husband who is totally positive and supportive. Thanks for the positive vibes and constant support!