possible break up?

My new bf is a really sweet guy but... do to his unsorted emotional baggage that has been spilling out on me, i have put a stop to everything. Yesterday I asked for my house keys back and gave him back a few things he left around the house. God knows I tried really hard to be there for him. i really opened my heart to this guy like no other guy in my past. i never met anyone like him. he was the guy i prayed for, that i didn't think existed, and God gave to me. ....bummed. But right now, till he sorts out his issues, i can't be close to him. Am I wrong for doing this?
After months of making adjustments on my night braces for my feet, they finally are making a huge difference. the pain has significantly reduced. Thank God. I also bought Earth shoes, that tilt the heal BACK not forward, and they have awesome arch support! if you have feet pain, i recommend trying these.
a military chaplain has been making visits to the house to talk to Sonnie. we are hoping that this will help him slowly get convinced to "want" mental help and check himself in to an 8 week program at the Va hospital. so far, i am holding off making any hasty decisions about the mortgage... besides, it will take a while before i get approved for IU.  
I have started the process of becoming a volunteer at the Va so i can visit patients at the hospital. I know that this was supposed to be a thing that my bf and i did together, but, i'm continuing with out him FOR NOW. I already signed most of the paper work. AND.... i'm considering joining the red cross so that i can visit hospitalized active duty troops at the Tripler Army Hospital as well.
hopefully, after he sorts out his issues, we can be together and do all these things we set to do. i already miss him.....