Poor Mother

It's after 9:30 a.m. - much later than Mother usually gets up - but she is still in bed. Not asleep but not responsive when I went in and sort of sign-languaged "get up?" When DH took the dog out at 6:30 this morning, she was sitting in the bathroom in her wheelchair, moaning. DH came back up and said he thought I should go down and see what was wrong. I did - but it was just her frustration and sadness over her bladder incontinence. Thought she had wet her briefs and was dreading standing up and getting on the john. I helped her and she wasn't all that wet but we changed the briefs and I helped her back to bed. Not sure how long she had been sitting there but she's been in bed ever since. Not sure what to do at this point... 
So frustrating for all of us. We're thinking maybe we'd better get the baby monitor because she sure doesn't call us on the alarm(s) that we have. Has only used the nighttime one once. Wurra, wurra.