Please I need advice
How do I tell Matthew that I dont what anything sexual? I want my relationship to be fun, like as if hes my bestfriend. I feel like i dont have that. I feel like he only wants my body. I am scared. How do I tell him that? I feel like I am pushing him away in my mind and I dont want that. I want to work things out and tell him but I dont know how. Im not ready for anything crazy. I was scared to even get in this relationship.
I dont know what I should do and I need your help!
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Also he wants to hangout tomorrow so help quickly
Remind him of your boundaries and tell him you don't want that rn. Tell him you need time and you just want to chill with nothing sexual. You might have to remind him occasionally. Guys can be forgetful sometimes. Just be honest with him.
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Gl. Lmk how it goes. You deserve to be treated and delt with the way you want. Ik you have attachment issues too, so don't give in just to have someone in your life. Ik it's hard to deal with. Don't be a people pleaser. Love you girl.
If you feel uncomfortable, that's your inner self saying stop. This isn't right. If you feel like you need to stop or have him wait to do anything, you need to tell him or go about it yourself. Nutin_Special is correct on the advice. She cares about you a lot and so does everyone else.
I told him last night. That I am not ready for that shit and he needs to not do that again. He apologized for even doing it. I told him I wanted our relationship to be us making fun memories together nothing sexual. He understands but I will probably have to remind him.
Guys need reminding. Know that saying, we have to remind them for 6 months to get that project done? Lol. It happens but maybe not 6 months. It's an interesting experience loving a guy.
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