I know I\'m healing but I don\'t know how long the healing process takes but I do feel the same way you do about my mom. I wish I could have her back too. When I look back, it seems like such a long time ago and yet it seems like yesterday. Its like when this first happened to my mom I talked to her all the time and then its like I didn\'t after a while but now, again, I am back talking to her again. My latest sign that I got from my mom was unbelievable. My mom and I used to watch lingo and it was on so I was a couple segments wishing that she was there with me then I changed the station and put on a movie and started watching it, a commercial came on and i sat thru it and then the movie continued. I sat there for a while and went into the kitchen to get a drink. As I was coming out of the kitchen, I hear LINGO on???????? I thought to myself, my mom must be there. I was the only one downstairs watching TV and I couldn\'t believe when I heard LINGO on the TV again, so from time to time when least expected, our loved ones do send us signs that they are with us. I hope and pray that your dad too is or will be sending you signs. He probably did but when we\'re all entangled in our pain sometimes it just passes us by but he will send you signs, I GUARANTEE IT, he will let you know he\'s around. well keep in touch and tc. laura
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I know I\'m healing but I don\'t know how long the healing process takes but I do feel the same way you do about my mom. I wish I could have her back too. When I look back, it seems like such a long time ago and yet it seems like yesterday. Its like when this first happened to my mom I talked to her all the time and then its like I didn\'t after a while but now, again, I am back talking to her again. My latest sign that I got from my mom was unbelievable. My mom and I used to watch lingo and it was on so I was a couple segments wishing that she was there with me then I changed the station and put on a movie and started watching it, a commercial came on and i sat thru it and then the movie continued. I sat there for a while and went into the kitchen to get a drink. As I was coming out of the kitchen, I hear LINGO on???????? I thought to myself, my mom must be there. I was the only one downstairs watching TV and I couldn\'t believe when I heard LINGO on the TV again, so from time to time when least expected, our loved ones do send us signs that they are with us. I hope and pray that your dad too is or will be sending you signs. He probably did but when we\'re all entangled in our pain sometimes it just passes us by but he will send you signs, I GUARANTEE IT, he will let you know he\'s around. well keep in touch and tc. laura